Belief Change
Change Any Belief At Will And Make Doing Anything You Want Easy and Automatic
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Dear Friend,
It’s easy to do what you already know how. The process is simple. You have a desire. The desire causes you to take a sequence of actions. You get your outcome. Making a sandwich. Ordering a pizza. Telling a joke to close friends.
This is the normal, human operating system. But what about things we don’t know how to do? The process is a little bit more complex, but still pretty easy. We get a basic idea of how to do it. We try it a few times, and slowly get better.
Stages Of Learning
You’ve likely heard of the four stages of learning. Unconscious incompetence, when you don’t know that you suck. Conscious incompetence, when you know you suck. Conscious competence, when you don’t exactly suck, but it takes all your brainpower to not suck.
Final Stage
Unconscious competence is when we can do things without needing to think. Making food, doing our daily job, walking and chewing gum, etc. Theoretically, we can put anything we want through these four stages. So long as we have an idea of what kind of skill we want, it’s all good, right?
Not So Fast
When we are learning pretty simple things, when there’s not a lot at stake, it is pretty easy. For example, suppose somebody told you they’d give you a thousand bucks if you could learn to juggle three eggs, without breaking them, for a minute.
And suppose you had a month to learn. Sure, you might have to spend a few bucks on eggs while you went through the learning curve, but it would be pretty straightforward. Practice every day for a few minutes, show up when you’re ready, and collect the cash. Easy peasy, right?
Added Danger
But suppose they added another element. That if you didn’t juggle the eggs for a minute, if you dropped one, they would torture you to death. Still interested? Yeah, uh, no.
Irrational Fears Mess Up Everybody
This is why we don’t think learning is easy. Because our brains are filled with limiting beliefs. And these limiting beliefs make us feel like if we do fail, it will be like dying. And what kinds of things do these limiting beliefs keep us from getting?
Whatever We Want Most
Maybe it’s trick by the gods. Maybe it’s a weird combination of ancient instincts and modern society. Who knows. But the same things we want the most are the things that are the hardest to learn how to do.
Money Sex Love
Think of some super powers you’d like to have. Making easy money. Convincing sexy people to have sex with you. Becoming a much more charismatic and persuasive communicator. Having much deeper and more rewarding relationships. Every single one of these things is on the other side of our limiting beliefs.
Most Common Limiting Belief
We all share a very common limiting belief. We all have a deep fear about ourselves we hope nobody finds out. This belief is so deep, and so terrifying, we don’t even like to think about it. But because it is so common, you’ll find it in nearly every romantic drama.
Fictional Representation
This is how it plays out. The hero, usually a very tough masculine type, is falling in love. But he’s got a problem. He is worried. He’s worried that when she finds out the truth about him, she’ll flee. The hero always feels like deep down inside, he’s broken.
The Wounded Hero
This archetype is very common. The hero is rough and tough and destroys bad guys like nobody’s business. But inside he’s secretly terrified that if anybody finds out who he really is, they’ll flee. If they find out his true nature, they’ll run like crazy.
You’re Not Broken
The reason these archetypes work so well in fiction is everybody thinks we’re broken on the inside. But guess what? You’re not broken. But until you realize why you believe you are, nothing will change. Everything that you want is on the other side of what may feel like an un-crossable chasm.
Not Worthy Of Love
This is another common false belief. But it’s one that is easy to destroy what’s you learn how. Once you eliminate the common deep fear of being unworthy, all the other false beliefs that sit on top of that will fall like dominoes.
Can You Learn To Bake A Cake?
If you can learn to bake a cake, you can learn to make a million dollars. The only difference now is that you believe you can do one, but you can’t do the other. Once you remove your limiting beliefs, learning how to make money will be as easy as learning how to make a cake.
It may take longer, but it won’t be terrifying or even uneasy. It will be enjoyable. The process will be fun. Just like learning to walk when you were a kid. You walked, you fell on your face, you laughed. We humans are programmed to enjoy learning how to do things.
Not Magic
Changing beliefs will take time. And once you get them out of the way, learning to do the things you really want will also take time. It won’t be quick, it won’t be magic. But you’ll never fear anything that’s not dangers.
Tigers and Skydiving
We are programmed to be afraid of things that are dangerous. Those will still be there. You won’t go jumping into the tiger cage at the zoo, and you won’t try to go skydiving without a parachute. But the things you fear will be more calibrated to the things you should fear. Everything else?
Watch Kids On The Playground
This is the natural human. Running around, playing and learning. Having fun falling and getting back up again. Think of a person without money fears. What do they do? They keep making more money. They go through school like the rest of us. But because they lack money fears, they keep making more money.
More Skills Equals More Success
This is the natural path of human learning. The more skills you learn, the more success you’ll have. Get limiting beliefs out of the way and you can learn to do anything. Talk to interesting people. Start million dollar companies. Invent new technology. Write best selling novels. Once fear is out of the way, all that stands between you and success is the time to learn how to do it.
What’s Included
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- The Human Organism
- Never Ending Desires
- How We Set Objectives
- How We Learn
- Human Strategies
- Four Levels Of Learning
- Why Some Learning Is Easy
- Why Some Learning Is Difficult
- Language and Metaphors
- Why Most Nouns Don’t Exist
- How Teaching Is Always Metaphorical
- Nested Metaphors of Learning
- Nested Metaphors of Teaching
- Mind to Mind Transfer
- We Must Always Learn
- Why Practice Is Always Necessary
- Why Some Practice is Easy
- Why Some Practice is Fun
- Why Some Practice is Terrifying
- Filters and Biases
- How Biases Support Beliefs
- Why Changing Beliefs Change Biases
- How Biases Are Set
- Beliefs About Capabilities
- Why We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know
- Why Our Imagination Keeps Us In The Dark
- What Our Subconscious Won’t Let Us See
- The Childhood Brain
- Why The First Three Years Are Unconscious
- The Language Instinct
- The Language Organ
- Chomsky’s X-Bar Theory
- Why Most Instincts Need Calibration
- Positive Social Instincts
- Negative Social Instincts
- Why They Work
- How They Work
- Why They Are Necessary
- How They Are Misunderstood
- How To Re-Calibrate Them
- All Instincts Are Natural
- Nothing You Want Is Wrong
- Nothing You Want Is Bad
- Achieving Desires Is Healthy
- Most Common Limiting Belief
- Understanding How It Was Formed
- Why It Shows Up In Fiction
- Why It Works In Fiction
- Why Everybody Feels This
- Biggest Belief Problem
- How To Approach Slowly
- The Simple Belief Changing Process
- Five Minutes A Day
- Collapsing Negative Beliefs
- Building Positive Beliefs
- Your Positive Belief Library
- The Mental Belief Collection
- The Simple Rewriting Technique
- How To Program Your Own Brain
- How To Find All Negative Beliefs
- How To Destroy Them
- How To Create Their Opposite
- How To Strengthen Their Opposite
- Building Custom Made Beliefs
- How To Support Any New Skill
- How To Reverse Engineer Success
- Event Specific Beliefs
- Pass Every Job Interview
- Ace Every Test
- Kill Every Presentation
- Pre-Event Belief Cramming
- Reframing Real Time Events
- How To Avoid Common Triggers
- Reversing Common Triggers
- Finding Your Own Triggers
- Gain Immense Emotional Freedom
- Gain Powerful Creative Power
- The Tyranny of The Should
- How To Reverse All External Shoulds
- How To Not Care About Others
- Eliminate Concern For Any Opinion
- Embrace All Social Pressure
- Enjoy Social Situations
- Shatter Beliefs Of Others
- Reframing Statements
- Develop an Attractive Personality
- Cause Effect Thoughts
- Why Everybody is Wrong
- The Wisdom of Marcus Aurelius
- Why Everything Is Opinion
- Get Them To Believe Any Opinion
- How To Disprove Any Idea
- Gain Incredible Conversational Strength
- Reframing For Humor
- Become Funnier Than World Class Comics
- Building Daily Habits
- Never Ending Limits
- Attaching Feelings To Objects
- Redefine Any Physical Landmark
- Rewrite Any Memory
- Obliterate All Emotional Pain
- Gain Complete Mental Freedom
- Much, Much, More
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