Love Instinct
Understand And Master The Driving Forces Of The Most Coveted and Celebrated Feeling In The Human Experience
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Dear Friend,
What is love? Poets, philosophers and metaphysicians have been asking this since the dawn of time. And for good reason.
Love is the best emotion. And the worst. Earth’s most talented and creative lyricists and wordsmiths have tried to describe this desperately sought feeling. If you decide to read this guide, you will understand what love is.
Seriously?
Yes, we are absolutely serious. From inside your brain, love is wonderful. Maddening. Enough to drive on insane. Yet from a purely scientific standpoint, it is relatively easy to understand. It will take some time, yes, but you will understand.
Don’t Describe The Rainbow!
It has been said that if you understand the science behind the rainbow, it will take away its beauty. But as any scientist will tell you, understanding the deep mysterious of the world only enhances our appreciation.
Inside Out
From the inside, love will never lose its magic. In fact, the more you understand and recognize the science of the love instincts, the more you’ll deeply appreciate it.
No Love – No Life
You’ll understand precisely why love is the driving force that compelled humans to invent every single thing we have beyond the natural world.
Love built empires. Love built nations. Love created everything we depend on in the modern world. But this will only make sense once you understand the collection of instincts that make up love, the meta instinct that drove humans to rule the Earth.
Understanding Modern Dating
You’ll understand exactly why some struggle, while some don’t. You’ll understand why, for some, that initial feeling never lasts. You’ll know exactly what causes it, and precisely why it wanes.
Ideal Love
You’ll understand the perfect recipe to create an ideal state of love between two people. The conditions that will create a lifelong relationship that will only get stronger as it gets older.
Divorce Prediction
This will, unfortunately, allow you to predict with uncanny accuracy which relationships will last, and which won’t. Including your own, which, for some, will be proof that ignorance is bliss.
Requires Courage
Love doesn’t care about modern sensibilities. Love doesn’t care about political correctness. Love doesn’t care about what we think should happen. Love is based on a collection of instincts.
Instincts that have been conspiring since before humans learned to speak. Instincts that collectively create the strongest relationships, and the strongest societies.
You Can Run – But You Can’t Hide
Our human instincts are like the Borg, from Stark Trek. Resistance is futile. You can ignore your hunger instinct all you want, but if you don’t eat, you will die.
You can ignore your love instincts all you like, but if you ignore them, if you do not understand them, if you do not respect them, you are asking for trouble.
Make The Unconscious Conscious
Jung famously said that if you do not make the unconscious conscious, you will not understand your actions and you will call it fate.
What he meant is that we are driven by instincts and drives beneath our conscious awareness. Unless you understand these instincts and drives, your life will be seemingly controlled by unknown forces.
If you do not understand the structure of your love instincts, you risk a string of heartbreaks and failed relationships. If you do understand the love instincts, you have a fighting chance.
Ideal Love Is Better Than Any Drug
It has to be. This was required in the ancient days of life. When every day was a struggle. When nothing was guaranteed. When only those bound together by powerful yet unknown forces had a chance.
It had to be so strong, so compelling, that it felt better than anything ever. And it’s absence had to be equally painful. This created an unavoidable push-pull compulsion that made modern live possible.
Grand Unification Theory
In physics, they’ve been searching for a grand unification theory. A theory that would tie together quantum mechanics, gravity, general and special relativity, and the laws governing nuclear forces.
So far, they’re close, but not finished. Nobody believes they’ll be finished for perhaps another thousand years. The more they find out, they more they know they don’t know.
Love Unites All
But for humans, love is the grand unification theory. The master of all domains. The king of all instincts. Love combines all other instincts in one powerful and unstoppable force of life. You probably know about plenty of these individually.
Dating And Sales Metaphors
Understand a couple of these instincts individually, and you can be a better salesperson or a better seducer. But understand how they are designed to be combined to create the subject of poets since the dawn of time, and you will understand everything.
Modern Dating Disasters
You’ll understand why the modern dating scene is a dumpster fire of agony. Why everybody seems to be chasing what they cannot find. Why nobody seems to like what they have.
Step outside of your subjective experience, and it will become clear. You will see through modern misery with a refreshing clarity.
Love Is Not A Trick
If you are looking for short term techniques to game girls or guys, look elsewhere. This is a guide on love. What it is. What it’s purpose is. How it’s best cultivated, strengthened, and appreciated.
Love Is A Journey
Love is not something that is a result of words or experiences or intentions or wishes. Love is the result of all our instincts and feelings. Inside and outside. Carefully cultivated since before humans could even think.
The quality of the love you seek is related to the quality of the life you live. Love is not something you can do part time. Love is not a hobby. Love is life.
Not For The Faint Hearted
Mother Nature does not hand out participation trophies. Mother Nature has given us all a drive. It is up to us to follow our drive to the best of our ability.
Love is the desire, but it is also a prize. A reward that can only come after a competition. Love does not come to those who wish and wait and hope and expect.
Far From A How To Guide
In order to feel the deep fullness of love, you’ve got to live the deep fullness of life. Love is not lust. Love is not attraction. Love is not a sense of familiarity or rapport.
If you read this guide, you will understand what love is. You will understand what things to look for if you are searching for love. You will know if your current relationship will last or not.
Owner’s Manual For Life
Mother Nature knows we’re not the smartest creatures. She knew that if She gave us a complicated operators manual, we’d mess it up. We never would have evolved.
Instead, She gave us a collection of instincts. Instincts that would drive some to greater and greater achievement. And drive others mad.
The Meta Instinct
Love is the meta instinct. The total of all other instincts. The one desire that, if we are willing to let drive us, will drive us to maximum success. Understand this. Appreciate this. Respect this. Become obedient to this and you will not fail.
What’s Inside
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- Why Love Is Critical
- Why Love Is Painful
- Why Understanding Love Is Complex
- The Biological Solution
- The Scientist Model
- Physiological Description of Love
- Biological Description Of Love
- The Science of Humans
- Evolutionary Psychology
- Understanding Human Instincts
- Energy Instincts
- Bonding Instincts
- Complicated Social Instincts
- Sexual Division of Labor
- Why Humans are Different
- How Humans are Different
- The Expensive Brain
- Meta Expensive Brain
- The Human Advantage
- Expensive Children
- Split Test Theory
- Tribal Origins
- Love Origins
- Selfish Genes
- Overlapping Selfishness
- Genes and Adam Smith
- Co-Evolution
- Flowers and Bees
- Dogs and Humans
- Humans and Humans
- Selfish Human Tribes
- Driven Males
- Productivity Contests
- Origins of Female Hypergamy
- Benefits of Female Hypergamy
- Why Beauty Chooses
- Why Men Must Compete
- The Essential Male Drive
- Internal Love
- Emotional Love
- Sexual Love
- External Love
- How All Instincts Create Love
- How All Instincts Support Love
- Why Mother Nature is Cruel
- Social Proof in Ancient Societies
- Ancient Instincts and Cialdini
- Why Love Built Modern Society
- How Love Built Modern Society
- Civilization Building Instincts
- Modern Society Mishaps
- The Obesity Epidemic
- Obesity As Instinct Mismatch
- Instincts and Constraints
- Instincts Within Constraints
- Instincts Without Constraints
- The Industrial Revolution
- The Burst Of Energy
- Separating Wealth From Productivity
- Why Wealth Is No Longer Enough
- Energy and Debt
- Money and Debt
- Modern Love Instincts
- Unsatisfied Instincts
- Thoughts On Top of Instincts
- Confused Instincts Create Confused Thoughts
- The Modern Chaotic Dating Scene
- Lust vs. Love
- Lust Is Only The Beginning
- Lust Is Not Enough
- Chaos Theory
- Chaotic Social Theory
- Why Thinking Isn’t Enough
- Why Emotions Aren’t Enough
- Paradox of Conscious Thought
- Paradox of Free Will
- Why We “Fall” In Love
- Love Solutions
- Preframing Love
- Falling Carefully In Love
- Creating Love
- Engineering Love
- Transitions – Here to There
- Improving Social Skills
- Easy And Gradual
- Daily Social Skills Practice
- Safe Social Skills Practice
- Improving Communication Skills
- Easy Conversational Tips
- Increasing Attraction Through Conversations
- Advanced Conversational Tactics
- Become A Shining Light
- Necessity Physical Appearance
- The Dismal Science
- Why Value is Subjective
- Creating Familiar Faces
- Building A Supporting Army
- Slowly Extending Social Circles
- How To Let It Happen
- How To Increase Love Probability
- Proper Use of Dating Sites
- Split Testing
- Reverse Engineering
- Advanced Data Collection
- Keeping Inside Secrets
- Understanding all Relationships
- Accurately Predicting Failure
- Easily Dodging Bullets
- Avoiding Modern Train Wrecks
- Continuous Love Improvement
- Much, Much, More
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