If it weren’t for approach anxiety, guys would be getting laid a lot more.
Why?
Getting laid is normal. Any normal guy starts talking to any normal girl, and pretty soon they’re both thinking about jumping in the sack.
Humans are hard wired that way. That’s why there’s 7 BILLION of us on this huge rock.
Not too long ago, there was only a few million. Now? 7 BILLION.
See, humans are pretty good at making more humans.
It’s natural.
You could say that we’re wired for sex.
Of course, that’ll never happen if you never walk up to her and just start talking.
You don’t really need any memorized patterns (but they’ll help) or super ninja openers (but they’ll help).
All you REALLY need to do is to walk up to her, start talking without passing out from fright.
Human nature will take it’s natural course from there. Of course, you won’t be banging every girl you say “hello” to, but you certainly won’t bang ANY girl you DON’T say hello to.
Right?
So how do you get over that initial anxiety?
Imagination.
If you haven’t read it yet, I highly recommend you get yourself a copy of Psycho Cybernetics.
In there, Dr. Maltz describes how imagining what you want to have happen will make it happen.
Just spend a few minutes every day imagining that you’re walking up to hot girls and starting regular conversations. The more you imagine it, the easier it will be.
Then stand back and just wait for the fireworks.