Young Anthropologist There was this young female anthropologist during Victorian England that went on an expedition by herself to some island in the South Seas to study the people that lived in the South Seas. The people that lived in the South Seas had dealt with British people before and they could sort of […]
Outer Protection Inner Fear
New Puppy I had this friend once that got a puppy. It was a German shepherd but the puppy was very scared. It was the most scared puppy that I’ve never seen. Most puppies are friendly and playful and whenever they see people they want to run over and play with them but this […]
Question Everything
Church Girl I used to go to this Christian church that was very light on the dogma and heavy on the activities and that’s the reason I went there was to participate in a lot of outreach activities. I met this one girl there and we would hang out sometimes but it was always […]
Intrapersonal Communication
What To Say When You Talk To Yourself Everybody talks to themselves. Some people do it out loud and often. Full blown conversations. Other people have their self talk so deeply in mind all they notice is the resultant feelings and emotions. The idea of this post is to identify how you talk to yourself, […]
Circle Of Excellence
NLP Change Work That Sticks The Circle of Excellence is a semi-popular NLP procedure that can be very beneficial if done correctly. As mentioned here, most NLP procedures are, unfortunately, not done correctly. They are often taught as “once and done,” quick fixes that work in the seminar room, but out in the harsh world […]
The Cialdini Trap
The Real Matrix Who is Cialdini, and why the heck is he trapping us? Cialdini did groundbreaking research and wrote a groundbreaking book (and subsequent books) outlining that things that influence us when we make decisions. Each one of these has been established through various testing and decades of marketing by advertisers. These are […]
The Myth Of One Weird Trick
The Search For Shortcuts and Secrets There is a very common idea in self-help areas. Even one of the most successful and widely read book and widely seen movie had the same name as this idea. “The Secret” was titled “the secret” because this is what we often seek. We want something, but we can’t […]
Time Preference – The Ultimate Life Skill
Body Moving If you were an athlete, you would need a lot of skills, depending on the sport. A sprinter would need different skills from an NLF lineman. A world class table tennis player would need different skills than a NHL goalie. But when looking at all sports, some skills are much more generalized across […]
Sleight of Mouth Examples
Flip Beliefs Upside Down Take your friends’ limiting beliefs and mercilessly crush them into balls of dust. Open their eyes to their own potential. Easily Reframe Objections Destroy all sales and seduction objections. Flip them around and leave your clients begging to buy and your romantic interests desperate to be your love slave. […]
Positive Affirmations For Turbo Charged Success
If you want to increase your skills, enhance your beliefs, or improve at pretty much anything in life, then positive affirmations can help. However, the best positive affirmations are ones that you create yourself. Some of the popular ones you see online can help, but unless they target your own needs specifically, they can only […]
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