No Signals https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec08_Post.mp3 One common idea from “self help” is that the wake doesn’t drive the boat. This is a kind of cool sounding metaphor, but it doesn’t help much. The things that happened to us in our past have a huge impact on how we see and interpret the future. In […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
They’ll Pursue You
Shooting Only https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec04_Loop.mp3 The idea of being “outcome independent” has been around for a long time. At least a couple thousand years. It’s one of the prime recommendations of stoicism. To focus on the shooting of the arrow, and not on the hitting of the target. This is exactly why they […]
Predict Everybody’s Personality
Similar Structure https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec03_Post.mp3 There’s an old video on YouTube called the “Axis of Awesome” or something like that. It is a demonstration that nearly all popular western music in the past couple decades have the SAME basic chord progression. If you study the structure of stories, you’ll find the same thing. On […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
Dominate Every Situation
Pretty Filter https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov29_Post.mp3 Imagine this scenario. You walk into a bar, and see a random mix of people. Let’s say there are thirty people. Some couples, some groups, some singles. Guys, girls etc. Now the money question. How long would it take, whether you’re a lady or a dude, […]
The Timeless Art
Monkey People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov28_Post.mp3 Robin Dunbar, an anthropologist, is famous for a couple ideas. One is something called the “Dunbar Number.” The number of people we can keep in our brain. So when we see them, we instantly remember EVERYTHING about them. It is believed that the upper limit, or the Dunbar […]
Easy Outcome Independence
Self Learning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov26_Post.mp3 One of the recent breakthroughs in computer learning was deep learning. The specific program was called AlphaZero, by company DeepMind, which was later bought by Google. How, specifically, did it learn? By playing against itself. All they did was program it with the rules of chess. And […]
Conversational Trance
Two Sides https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov25_Post.mp3 In the world of communication, there is content and there is structure. If you focus too much on the actual words, you’ll miss the structure. The structure of communication is what drives emotions. This is how people get into big trouble. They “think” things are going well and […]
Pass Every Test
Don’t Hate https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov19_Post.mp3 Why do women test men? Plenty, if not most, don’t quite understand why this happens. Most, if not all, wish this wouldn’t happen. They see it as a sign of disrespect. Maybe from reading too much “red pill” material on line. For example, a less than successful […]
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