No Signals https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec08_Post.mp3 One common idea from “self help” is that the wake doesn’t drive the boat. This is a kind of cool sounding metaphor, but it doesn’t help much. The things that happened to us in our past have a huge impact on how we see and interpret the future. In […]
Rebuild Your Personality
B People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec07_Post.mp3 Most of what we remember is wrong. Plenty of studies confirm this. Even in school, when we’re told exactly what to study, we can’t remember. We get B’s on tests. So when things happen to use unexpectedly, it’s a sure bet we really don’t know what happened. […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
Outcome Independent Life
Flow State https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec05_Post.mp3 Being outcome independent is a very, very pleasant state of mind. We all want more or less the same stuff. More money, better relationships, better jobs, etc. But getting those things is the difficult part. You may even say this is our “purpose.” To keep searching for […]
They’ll Pursue You
Shooting Only https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec04_Loop.mp3 The idea of being “outcome independent” has been around for a long time. At least a couple thousand years. It’s one of the prime recommendations of stoicism. To focus on the shooting of the arrow, and not on the hitting of the target. This is exactly why they […]
Predict Everybody’s Personality
Similar Structure https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec03_Post.mp3 There’s an old video on YouTube called the “Axis of Awesome” or something like that. It is a demonstration that nearly all popular western music in the past couple decades have the SAME basic chord progression. If you study the structure of stories, you’ll find the same thing. On […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
Secrets To Attraction
Listen First https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec01_Post.mp3 Many folks have tried and failed with Dale Carnegie’s golden advice. And that is to simply let others do most of the talking. To follow the 80-20 rule. To “let” them talk most of the time. This sounds great in theory. But there are two main and […]
Love Mind Drug
Cult Sex https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov30_Post.mp3 I’ve always been interested in cults. So I watch any kind of cult documentary that comes my way. Recently, I watched one about a “sex cult.” The cult was run by a woman in San Francisco. She had a kind of weird take on the female orgasm. […]
Dominate Every Situation
Pretty Filter https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov29_Post.mp3 Imagine this scenario. You walk into a bar, and see a random mix of people. Let’s say there are thirty people. Some couples, some groups, some singles. Guys, girls etc. Now the money question. How long would it take, whether you’re a lady or a dude, […]
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