Status Instinct https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar30_Post.mp3 Hierarchy is very important. We don’t often like to admit it, but it’s always there. Everything is organized into hierarchies. Sports teams, companies, militaries, even groups of friends. It’s pretty easy to take an observer view and guess the hierarchy of any one particular group. There is […]
The Sweetest Revenge
Success https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar17_Post.mp3 Humans have what can be called an “externalizing instinct.” Because this is an instinct, it operates at the subconscious level. Just like hunger, it’s not rational. You can’t choose to be hungry. You can’t choose to be not hungry. Similar to social signals, both positive and negative. […]
Slide Their Brains
Status Monkeys https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar11_Post.mp3 Plenty of studies indicate that we humans always self-organize into hierarchies. For example, they’ll take ten people, and put them in a group. Then they’ll give the group a task. Something a bit confusing they need to do, or a problem they need to solve. Without fail, they […]
Your Secret Edge
Words and Meaning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb25_Post.mp3 Here’s an interesting fact I learned a couple of days ago. Consider the term, “The Buddha.” What does this mean, exactly? Was Buddha his name? Son of Mr. And Mrs. Buddha? Nope. The word “bodhi” is a verb in Sanskrit. “Buddha” is the past […]
The Most Attractive Trait
Heavy Research https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb13_Post.mp3 One woman did an experiment with online dating. She did a lot of reverse engineering. First, she came up with a list of criteria that she wanted in a dude. A few, must have, green flags. Then a few things that weren’t “must have’s” but “would be nice […]
Mingle Yourself Rich
Give Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept17_POst.mp3 Most people are stuck in the childhood mindset these days. And this, combined with another “worldview” can lead to devastating results. First, what is the childhood mindset? When we are kids, we can’t produce. We can only consume. And what we consume MUST come from others. […]
Ancient Love Drive
Give Up https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept04_Post.mp3 Most people have given up looking for a decent relationship. Well, not most, but a lot. Most people are still living life old school. Show up on Earth, go through school, get a job, fall in love with somebody, have a family and call it good. But this […]
Ancient Love Force
Cat Skinners https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept03_Post.mp3 We humans are pretty flexible. They think it all started once we split our division of labor along gender lines. Dudes would hunt, women would gather. This allowed us to live in a lot more areas. It also made “unions” between humans much more important. Plenty of […]
Are You Chasing Donut Status?
Everything Costs Something https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July20_Post.mp3 A lot of things in life are inherently unpleasant, but necessary. This is the cost of being a human. Even way back in the days of hunter gatherers, we had to work for a living. If you didn’t kill, you didn’t eat. The better of a killer […]
Do You Crave Power?
Get Her! https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July19_Post.mp3 Way back in high school, we read Julius Caesar. And then we had to write an essay on the theme: Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. This saying has been around for a while. Is it true? It seems true. When you don’t have any power, […]