Factory Settings https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan17_Post.mp3 We all have the same basic fears. One collection comes from evolution. Sudden loud noises. Heights. Sketchy dark places like forests with little visibility. The people who were naturally afraid of these things tended to survive at a higher rate, thereby passing on those same genes. […]
Reciprocal Love Generator
Cooperation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan09_Post.mp3 Co-evolution is a pretty interesting concept. It is kind of hard to wrap your brain though. Particularly because we use metaphors to describe complex things. For example, consider bees and flowers. To famously co-evolving people. The bees get “free” food from the flowers. The flowers get a […]
Reciprocal Love
Heaven Or Hell? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan08_Post.mp3 Here is an interesting metaphor about heaven and hell. In hell, everybody is sitting in a huge, round room. They’ve all got their backs up against the wall. In the center is a huge pot of delicious smelling food. They have spoons that are long enough to […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
Outcome Independent Life
Flow State https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec05_Post.mp3 Being outcome independent is a very, very pleasant state of mind. We all want more or less the same stuff. More money, better relationships, better jobs, etc. But getting those things is the difficult part. You may even say this is our “purpose.” To keep searching for […]
Predict Everybody’s Personality
Similar Structure https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec03_Post.mp3 There’s an old video on YouTube called the “Axis of Awesome” or something like that. It is a demonstration that nearly all popular western music in the past couple decades have the SAME basic chord progression. If you study the structure of stories, you’ll find the same thing. On […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
Secrets To Attraction
Listen First https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec01_Post.mp3 Many folks have tried and failed with Dale Carnegie’s golden advice. And that is to simply let others do most of the talking. To follow the 80-20 rule. To “let” them talk most of the time. This sounds great in theory. But there are two main and […]
Love Mind Drug
Cult Sex https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov30_Post.mp3 I’ve always been interested in cults. So I watch any kind of cult documentary that comes my way. Recently, I watched one about a “sex cult.” The cult was run by a woman in San Francisco. She had a kind of weird take on the female orgasm. […]
Groucho Marx Seduction
Be Real https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov18_Post.mp3 Groucho Marx famously said that sincerity is the most important thing in the world. And if you can fake that, you’ve got it made. The reason A list actors get paid so much is they are believable. When they say their lines, we BELIEVE them. They are absolutely […]
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