Recalibrated Instincts https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May07_Post.mp4 A very common idea is that most of the food we eat is overly processed. Some believe this is a deliberate plan to kill us. But it’s also, arguably, simply an outcome of mass production. Imagine, for a moment, what it would cost, as a company, to mass produce […]
One Shift To Change Everything
Scarcity Gone Wild https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May06_Post.mp4 Nearly everybody is aware of the value of scarcity. Even in goofy romantic movies, the idea of not calling or texting too often is pretty ubiquitous. When you really dig somebody this is hard to do. Particularly if you really dig somebody and you aren’t sure if they […]
Three Levels of One-Itis
One Itis Feels Good https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May05_Post.mp4 Remember what it was like when you had your first crush? Or even a recent one of that’s easier. Even a fictional character will do. When I was a kid, I had plenty of crushes. One on my second grade teacher. One a few fictional […]
Old School Love Ideas
One Way Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May04_Post.mp4 Most people are familiar with the term “one-itis.” Meaning you have strong feelings of attraction for somebody. Which, by itself, is not bad or wrong or even undesired. This label has a couple of problems with it. One it is generally a one-way attraction. Before the […]
The Science Of Love
I’m Falling https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May03_Post.mp4 How does one fall in love? First, take a look at that phrase. “Fall” in love. According to a theory of metaphors, we think of love as a container. Since we use it with the preposition “in.” Kind of like being “in” a meeting. George Lakoff […]
Make Them Crave You
Two Sides To Sales https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr15_Post.mp4 There are two ways to sell things to people. One is to come up with a compelling pitch. This is the way TV characters sell. Because TV characters are fictional, they can be VERY mesmerizing, charismatic, etc. But in real life, memorized pitches are not nearly […]
Custom Programmed Confirmation Bias
Deeper Meaning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr02_Post.mp4 A common phrase from self help is: What the thinker thinks, the prover proves. This is essentially a description of our confirmation bias. What we think is true, our confirmation bias will point it out. Imagine that your confirmation bias is like a very loyal employee. Only […]
Plant The Seeds Of Love
What Do They Really Mean? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar21_Loop.mp4 There are a lot of useful metaphors that have been overused. Not necessarily overused, but used too often without really understanding them. Once I was at Griffith Park observatory in Los Angeles. A buddy of mine and I had just finished watching a Pink Floyd laser […]
Insanity Love Spell
Psychic Lovers Once there was a psychic. A love psychic. A very, very powerful love psychic. Her customers enjoyed a very high success rate. But it took a long time. To be able to see her. Because one of her prime concerns. For her powerful skills. Was […]
Yin Yang Breathing
Couples Counseling Once there was a therapist. Who was a very powerful hypnotist. Skilled in many esoteric arts. She was most famous. For her couples counseling. That enjoyed 100% success rate. Even the angriest couples. Filled with the most mutual hatred. Would rediscover their love. For […]
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