Three Stages https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct02_Post.mp3 In life, we can consider three very basic categories of learned skills. Compared to inborn skills, like running, fighting, language and having sex. These are things we need to learn on top of the things we are born able to do. Of course, there is plenty of overlap. […]
Emotional Resonance
Resonance https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept11_Post.mp3 A long time ago, a friend taught me how to surf. I was always more into body surfing than board surfing. Anyway, we went out one day and he taught the basics. You need to see the waves coming in and choose the right one. You had to be […]
Party Hero Practice
Slow And Steady https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug14_Post.mp3 Everything takes practice. The old joke about Carnegie Hall spells this out. Guy asks how to get to Carnegie hall. Other guys says, “practice.” First guy wanted only directions. Second guy assumed he meant, “How can I play at Carnegie Hall?” There’s a pretty common […]
Forget The Words
Long Time https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/22Aug13_Post.mp3 Most science is rejected at first. It’s rejected because science is generally created by intellectuals and academics. And they have their own form of “territoriality.” They’ve spent their entire careers carving out their academic and intellectual territory. If some unknown goof comes along with a brand hew idea? […]
Mind Moving Skills
Brain Leads All https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug03_Post.mp3 How well you speak is based on how well you think. This can either be conscious or unconscious. Either by natural game or conscious and deliberate effort. Thinking and speaking is just like any other skill. Although it’s not thought to be a skill by most. […]
Live Inside Their Dreams
Subjective Humans https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug02_Post.mp3 One old classical move is the Japanese, “Rashomon.” Some event happens and the authorities are called in. The authorities talk to different witnesses and they all give different stories. There’s been a few others like this. This is a very believable movie since we ALL have different perspectives. […]
Feed Their Desires
More Than Words https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July30_Post.mp3 One of the biggest mistakes you can make socially is paying too much attention on the words of any conversation. Think of this from an advertising perspective. Most of our decisions are made emotionally. Advertisers and marketers have known this for a long time. If you want […]
Profound Connections
What Happens Next? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July05_Post.mp3 Humans are living in a very unique time. Whether this is the new normal or we’ll have a mean reversion is anybody’s guess. Some say we will not only mean revert, but we’ll mean revert all the way back to the pre-industrial times. The explosion in the past […]
Your Latent Telepathy
Lazy Brains https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July04_Post.mp3 A common idea is that humans are getting dumber. One very easy way to see this is watch a recent political debate. Anybody vs. anybody, so long as it took place in the last couple years. Then look up Nixon vs. Kennedy on YouTube. This debate was famous […]
Easy Deep Connections
Communication Basics https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July02_Post.mp3 Rapport is absolutely necessary. Luckily, it’s also pretty automatic. At least under normal circumstances. But the more you want out of any relationship, the more rapport you need. If you want to have a friendly conversation with a stranger to pass the time, rapport is more or less […]
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