Where you focus your attention, and intention, when talking to girls will have HUGE impact on your ability to lead her emotions. Being able to lead her emotions, without a doubt, is the Holy Grail when it comes to creating and enjoying the relationships you want. To be sure, this is ALWAYS the underlying goal […]
The Powerful Frame Control Mindset
I’ve said many times before that holding a strong frame is the singular most crucial thing of getting all the girls you want. I’d even go so far as seeking a guy who’s frame is stronger than everybody else around him is programmed into her DNA. One of the curious things about humans, that very […]
The Essential Practice Of Conversation With Attractive Women
There’s a lot of reason to make it part of your regular practice to talk to girls. One the one hand, girls are cute. Girls are nice to talk to. Being with the right girls (or girl) will give you feelings and emotions that you simply can’t get anywhere else. Money, power, cars, nothing comes […]
Who Defines YOUR Reality?
One of my favorite lines from the TV show “Breaking Bad” is also a fun pattern from NLP. It’s based on the idea of ambiguity, where you’ve got a bunch of words together in a sentence, and it’s unclear, since there’s more than one meaning, which words apply to which other words. Like for example, […]
How To Find Romantic Trading Partners
You know the story of Goldilocks, right? She wandered into a house, and suddenly found herself surrounded by three choices. One was too big (or too hard to too whatever), the other was too small (or too soft or too “opposite of whatever”), but one was just right. Forgetting about how the bears came home […]
She Wants To Be Checked Out Like A Bestselling Library Book
I have a friend that’s got a couple kids, that are exceptionally energetic. They picked up this song at school (kindergarten I think) about somebody getting caught stealing cookies from the cookie jar. When they start singing it, they jump around like a couple of hyperactive monkeys that just discovered espresso. When many guys walk […]
Are You Buying Cookies Or Creating Attraction?
Here’s a thought experiment to understand the power of language for seduction. Imagine some cute little girl scouts come to your door, selling cookies. They are excited, dressed up in their girl scout uniforms, and their mom is standing behind them just in case. Would you buy some cookies? Maybe, maybe not. Now consider this. […]
Use Flexibility Of Meaning To Define Reality On Your Terms
I used to do a lot of backpacking when I was younger. When it was just two or three of us, we did pretty good time. But somehow, as our groups were larger, it took a lot longer to go from point A to point B. Not just backpacking, but any kind of traveling. When […]
How To Leverage Confirmation Bias For Mind Boggling Power
I’m sure you know plenty of people who only watch certain news shows that match their preconceived political beliefs. This is pretty common, and in psychology is referred to as “confirmation bias,” meaning we humans only like to see things that will “confirm” our previously chosen beliefs. The funny thing is, it doesn’t matter if […]
Lead With A Powerful Frame Of Expectation And Charisma
I read about this pretty ingenious school project a while back. This guy was doing this for his marketing class. He hired an official looking camera man, and some girl who posed as his publicist. Then he made up a fake name, and went to the local mall. The camera man followed him around, as […]