Natural Learning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov27_Post.mp3 Here’s an interesting and VERY applicable quote by Dale Carnegie. Mostly, he’s famous for his book “How To Win Friends and Influence People,” but during his time, he was a public speaking guru. The ideas in the book grew out of his public speaking program. Anyhow, here’s the quote. […]
Don’t Eat Dirt
Effect Cause https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May18_Post.mp3 Relationships used to be easy. Not fantasy dream come true, but pretty easy. You cruise through school. Learn some basic social skills. Learn some basic life skills. Parents and teachers were there to help. Society was pretty stable. You came out, got a job and […]
Head And Shoulders Above Everybody
Judge Not? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May28_Post.mp4 There are two ways we “judge” somebody. Right off the bat, nobody likes that word “judge.” This usually has negative connotations. Like we are looking down on somebody. But suppose you were falsely accused of a crime. A crime that held the death penalty. And after […]
Become Everybody’s Fantasy
Two Sides To Everything https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar16_Post.mp4 There are two models to sales. Kind of on two opposite extremes. Both are useful under various situations. First, there’s the numbers game model. Where you spend all your time putting as many cold leads into your sales funnel as possible. This has very little […]
How To Start A Cult
How To Be The Chosen One If you want to start your own cult, it’s not that different from baking a cake. Meaning if you get all the right ingredients together and mix them up together in the right way, you’ll get a cake. If you do the same, you’ll get a cult. Of course, […]
Get Rich And Sexy From Public Speaking
Benefits Of Public Speaking – And How To Make It Easy Let’s cut to the chase, shall we? All else equal, having the ability to speak well in public is a benefit, and will be a benefit in nearly every situation. On a meta level, having skills is better than not having skills. One way […]
Swish Magic
Take Control Of Your Brain The Swish Pattern is one of the earliest techniques from NLP. It’s based on anchoring, which was discovered by Pavlov. To talk about the swish pattern, we need to talk about anchoring. Unfortunately, both of these very easy techniques (you’ll be able to do both effectively after reading this post) […]
Surefire Conversational Skills
How To Get Anybody Feeling Positive In A Hurry One of the reasons we keep ourselves from starting conversations with people is we don’t know what to say. Even if we have a couple of openers, carrying on the conversation is difficult. As soon as we hit one of those uncomfortable silences, both parties start […]
Hypnosis Party Tricks
Brain Party Hacks There are plenty of reasons to learn hypnosis. Self hypnosis to sleep better, play better golf, overcome social anxiety so you can more easily get out there and get some. Then there is straight up, watch-swinging hypnosis. Direct hypnosis or overt hypnosis. It comes in many names. Direct hypnosis is very […]
How To Start And Maintain A Conversation With Anybody
Why Social Anxiety Exists Social skills are coveted by many, but they are also the most difficult to practice. This is the problem that keeps many of us from actively improving our social skills. Most of us don’t improve our skills to begin with, since practicing is pretty boring. Many people would love to play […]