Two Easy Rules https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun11_Post.mp4 There are two critical ideas for any kind of social success. And when I say social success, I mean ANYTHING that requires a one-on-one conversation. Even if you have the perfect degree, nobody is going to hire you if you come across as a socially inept goof. Even […]
The Dale Carnegie Love Pattern
Subliminal Advertising https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May09_Post.mp4 Once, I went to a bar with a couple of friends As soon as I walked in, I noticed that there were Corona flags all over the place. (The beer, not the virus…) One of my friends studied the menu carefully. I could see the determination and seriousness […]
Peanut Butter Industrial Complex
Carnegie Origin Story How To Win Friends and Influence People is one of the best self help book written for a lot of reasons. Carnegie realized a long time before wrote the book that the quickest way to be able to increase social confidence was through public speaking. But not being able to […]
Mind Control Machine
Weird Sandwich Shop I went to the sandwich shop a couple days ago. It’s a kind of a weird sandwich shop that has specifically decided only on a very narrow range of customers. They built their shop inside of a business park. This business park is filled up with these nondescript, tilt-up buildings. Most […]
Origin Story Erasure
Dale Carnegie’s Brilliance Before Dale Carnegie wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People he did an extensive public speaking workshop for many years. He found through this workshop all the techniques and all the details and strategies that he later wrote and How to Win Friends and Influence People. That’s what makes this […]
Get Rich And Sexy From Public Speaking
Benefits Of Public Speaking – And How To Make It Easy Let’s cut to the chase, shall we? All else equal, having the ability to speak well in public is a benefit, and will be a benefit in nearly every situation. On a meta level, having skills is better than not having skills. One way […]
How To Use Reverse Psychology
That’s Just What They Want Us To Do Using reverse psychology is a popular way to get people to do what you want, especially if you know they wouldn’t do it if you asked them directly. Since you are not being completely honest, it can be manipulative. If you were being totally honest, you would […]
Who Is Chasing Whom?
If you ever spend time on any kind of seduction or “pick up” message boards, you know that the move “Fight Club” is always referenced. Now, many guys think this is because those guys are “badass” and by fighting each other in underground clubs, they become more “alpha,” or that the movie has some kind […]
Become A Public Speaking Ninja
ew years ago, I took a course in public speaking, namely, the Dale Carnegie course. It was a twelve week course based on several of his books. Back in the day, he realized that learning public speaking skills could bleed over into virtually every area of life. Business, social, relationships, you name it. Why? Because […]
How To Supercharge Your Listening Skills With The Meta Model
When most of us talk to each other, unless we’re really comfortable with the person we’re speaking with, there’s always a fear, however sleight, of that uncomfortable pause. Nobody likes that. If you’ve ever been on a first date, and you found it hard to keep the conversation flowing, this can be deadly. The good […]