Weird Sandwich Shop I went to the sandwich shop a couple days ago. It’s a kind of a weird sandwich shop that has specifically decided only on a very narrow range of customers. They built their shop inside of a business park. This business park is filled up with these nondescript, tilt-up buildings. Most […]
Origin Story Erasure
Dale Carnegie’s Brilliance Before Dale Carnegie wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People he did an extensive public speaking workshop for many years. He found through this workshop all the techniques and all the details and strategies that he later wrote and How to Win Friends and Influence People. That’s what makes this […]
Get Rich And Sexy From Public Speaking
Benefits Of Public Speaking – And How To Make It Easy Let’s cut to the chase, shall we? All else equal, having the ability to speak well in public is a benefit, and will be a benefit in nearly every situation. On a meta level, having skills is better than not having skills. One way […]
How To Use Reverse Psychology
That’s Just What They Want Us To Do Using reverse psychology is a popular way to get people to do what you want, especially if you know they wouldn’t do it if you asked them directly. Since you are not being completely honest, it can be manipulative. If you were being totally honest, you would […]
Who Is Chasing Whom?
If you ever spend time on any kind of seduction or “pick up” message boards, you know that the move “Fight Club” is always referenced. Now, many guys think this is because those guys are “badass” and by fighting each other in underground clubs, they become more “alpha,” or that the movie has some kind […]
Become A Public Speaking Ninja
ew years ago, I took a course in public speaking, namely, the Dale Carnegie course. It was a twelve week course based on several of his books. Back in the day, he realized that learning public speaking skills could bleed over into virtually every area of life. Business, social, relationships, you name it. Why? Because […]
How To Supercharge Your Listening Skills With The Meta Model
When most of us talk to each other, unless we’re really comfortable with the person we’re speaking with, there’s always a fear, however sleight, of that uncomfortable pause. Nobody likes that. If you’ve ever been on a first date, and you found it hard to keep the conversation flowing, this can be deadly. The good […]
Create Instant Charisma
What’s everybody’s favorite radio station? WII-FM (what’s in it for me) The truth about human nature is that we are always looking out for our best interests. Sure, some of these are long term behaviors, which can give the appearance of short term selflessness, but in reality we are always doing whatever we think we […]
Seduce Her With Curiosity
Most guys see a girl, and try and think of the right thing to say, in order to get a certain result. Don’t get me wrong, if you’ve five or six good openers, that are well polished, you’ll do better than most guys. But there’s another way that’s much better. Curiosity. Not hers, yours. Let’s […]