Love Options https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun12_Post.mp4 There are two ways to build outcome independence. One way is old school. For example, let’s say you decided to become outcome independent when you talked to gorgeous girls. So you really DIDN’T care what happened during the conversation. So you could playfully tease her, make jokes, be […]
Develop True Outcome Independence
We Want To Believe https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun05_Post.mp4 Everybody is naturally attracted to somebody with outcome independence. NOT fake outcome independence which is what nearly everybody has. We have a kind of two way reframing system that is VERY fast. When random good things happen, we take credit. When random bad things happen, we […]
The Rare And Subtle Confidence Frame
Respectful Advice https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun04_Post.mp4 About ten years or so ago, I was in Bangkok. I was acting like a typical tourist. Walking around with a my guidebook, trying to hit all the recommended spots. I was looking for the spot in the guide that recommended the river barge. The place to get […]
Catch All The Fish In The Sea
Scaled Up Seduction https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May30_Post.mp4 One of the biggest changes from the Industrial Revolution was economies of scale. For example, before, people had to plant and harvest things by hand. Hopefully with the help of animals. This took a long time. But once they started using fossil fuel for energy, it was […]
Sony Seduction Success Strategy
Events And Meaning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May16_Post.mp4 A very common idea, found in plenty of religions and philosophies is the idea of meaning. Here we are inside our brains. We interact with the world and get a result. Then we have an emotional response, good or bad. Because this happens so quickly, we assume […]
Rid Yourself of Anger
Recalibrated Instincts https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May14_Post.mp4 Imagine two hunters. Two imaginary hunters way back in the days of hunter gathers. Where humans lived for 200,000 years. Where all our modern instincts were calibrated. Anyhow, here’s the mental experiment. Both guys throw their spears at a deer. Both miss. One guy reflects […]
How To Be Outcome Independent
Arrow Vs. Target https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May12_Post.mp4 The idea of outcome independence is pretty common. That if you’re in a situation where you really WANT the outcome, it makes it harder to get it. This is best understood from a purely brain engineering standpoint. Let’s say you’re going in for a job interview. Not […]
Three Levels of One-Itis
One Itis Feels Good https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May05_Post.mp4 Remember what it was like when you had your first crush? Or even a recent one of that’s easier. Even a fictional character will do. When I was a kid, I had plenty of crushes. One on my second grade teacher. One a few fictional […]
Become A Linguistic Assassin
Magic Words https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr24_Post.mp4 The very first book on NLP was “The Structure of Magic.” How NLP was “discovered” is pretty interesting. It happened way back in the “golden times” of therapy. When more and more people were OK with going to therapy. A growing demand. But BEFORE the insurance industry […]
Two Critical Origin Stories
Fear Of Death https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr21_Post.mp4 Milton Erickson was very much like Walter White. Erickson was a real guy, White is a fictional character. Walter White and Breaking Bad are considered top level TV. Walter White has a very compelling character arc. Underachieving guy turns into evil genius. But the arc from […]
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