Most guys have some kind of approach anxiety. If you don’t have approach anxiety, then something’s wrong with you! It’s natural to be a bit nervous and uncomfortable doing new things, and when we’re thinking about talking to that gorgeous girl over there, when there’s so much to gain, this doesn’t help matters much. The […]
The Adult Mindset Of Seduction
There’s two main mindsets of life. That of being a kid, and that of being an adult. That of being a receiver, and that of being a creator. That of someone who is dependent on others for their happiness, and that of someone who knows that only THEY are responsible for creating their happiness. When […]
How Often Are You Manipulated?
Optical illusions are pretty cool, and they are very similar, in structure, to jokes. With optical illusions, you trick your brain into seeing two different things at the same time. Like that famous one that’s either a young lady looking one way, or an old lady looking the other way. You brain flips back and […]
Whose The Director Of Your Life?
I’ve taken a few acting classes at local community colleges in the past. They’re great for a lot of reasons. One is you get to meet some interesting people who aren’t afraid to get out of their comfort zone. They also help you uncover lots of issues about expressing yourself. The best actors are the […]
Are Your Fears Really Real?
I remember long ago, I signed up for Toastmasters, as a means of self improvement. Public speaking is one of our biggest fears, and I figured if I looked one of my fears in the face, and realized that it was much smaller than I’d imagined, I’d feel pretty good. And I did. A good, […]
How To Push ALL Their Happy Buttons For Easy Persuasion
There’s a difference between specific criteria, and pre-programmed criteria. Understanding both is crucial to win-win persuasion, the kind where everybody gets what they want and feels better off after the transaction. Regardless of whether you’re selling million dollar homes or convincing your partner to watch Mad Men instead of America’s Got Talent, understand ALL criteria […]
Harness The Power Of Your Fears For Amazing Seduction Success
Most people have at least heard about Breaking Bad. Maybe you’ve even watched it. The title tells it all. It’s a slow character study in a guy who starts out as an underachieving, highly intelligent science teacher that slowly turns into an evil criminal mastermind. The crucial steps along the way are death. Several times […]
Reduce Her Perceived Risks And Increase Your Success Rate
There’s a powerful technique from psychology that will make dating you seem like a natural thing to do. It’s called “commitment and consistency,” and it basically says that we keep doing the same things we’ve always done. Humans HATE taking risks. We don’t know how they’re going to come out. If we take a risk […]
Confront Your Biggest Fear And It Will Vanish Like Ice In A Volcano
I was watching “Revolver” the other night on Netflix. If you haven’t seen it, I recommend that you check it out. It’s a great metaphor for getting rid of the ego and reaching your full potential. The overall message is that the ego pretends to protect us, but in reality it’s severely limiting us. Like […]
It’s Not About The Toothpaste
If you’re in a relationship, you know how easily some seemingly simple conversation can turn into a big ugly fight. It starts simple enough, you say something, they say something, then you misinterpret something they say, or you don’t quite say something the way you want to say it, so they misinterpret you. This is […]