From Peace And Tranquility A long time ago I used to be a devout Christian in fact there was a time in my life when I went to daily mass for work. Now even if I go near a church, particularly a Catholic church, I have to do everything I can to not pass […]
Comfort Zone Expansion
Boy Scouts When I was a kid my parents thought it was a good idea, would be a good idea for me to join Boy Scouts. First it was kind of cool we’d meet every Thursday night to Boy Scout type stuff. Then we started going camping and that was kind of cool. We […]
How To Kill Social Anxiety
Everybody’s Got It There are many truths about humans and human nature. Here are two: All people have social anxiety. All people would like to have less social anxiety. Consider this a given. Many people would like to go out and meet people, but they say, “Yeah, but I have social anxiety!” Unfortunately, some people […]
Seduction Scams
Why The Seduction Market Will Always Be Hot If you created a time capsule in your back yard, crawled into it and came out 5,000 years into the future, you’d find a lot of things different. Different language. Different monetary system. The people might even look a little different (although 5,000 years is a blink […]
Approach Anxiety Elimination Tips That Work For Good
Most guys have some kind of approach anxiety. If you don’t have approach anxiety, then something’s wrong with you! It’s natural to be a bit nervous and uncomfortable doing new things, and when we’re thinking about talking to that gorgeous girl over there, when there’s so much to gain, this doesn’t help matters much. The […]
The Adult Mindset Of Seduction
There’s two main mindsets of life. That of being a kid, and that of being an adult. That of being a receiver, and that of being a creator. That of someone who is dependent on others for their happiness, and that of someone who knows that only THEY are responsible for creating their happiness. When […]
How Often Are You Manipulated?
Optical illusions are pretty cool, and they are very similar, in structure, to jokes. With optical illusions, you trick your brain into seeing two different things at the same time. Like that famous one that’s either a young lady looking one way, or an old lady looking the other way. You brain flips back and […]
Whose The Director Of Your Life?
I’ve taken a few acting classes at local community colleges in the past. They’re great for a lot of reasons. One is you get to meet some interesting people who aren’t afraid to get out of their comfort zone. They also help you uncover lots of issues about expressing yourself. The best actors are the […]
Are Your Fears Really Real?
I remember long ago, I signed up for Toastmasters, as a means of self improvement. Public speaking is one of our biggest fears, and I figured if I looked one of my fears in the face, and realized that it was much smaller than I’d imagined, I’d feel pretty good. And I did. A good, […]
How To Push ALL Their Happy Buttons For Easy Persuasion
There’s a difference between specific criteria, and pre-programmed criteria. Understanding both is crucial to win-win persuasion, the kind where everybody gets what they want and feels better off after the transaction. Regardless of whether you’re selling million dollar homes or convincing your partner to watch Mad Men instead of America’s Got Talent, understand ALL criteria […]