One cult favorite movie is “Dazed and Confused.”
It’s got a lot modern A listers but when they were just starting out.
It was a typical high school setting.
All the different cliques.
But one kid was different.
He was the quarterback for the football team.
Not your typical jock.
He got along with everybody.
He was the one common theme that went through all the different character arcs in all the different cliques.
If you can be like that guy, you’ll never worry about any social issues.
You’ll be accepted everywhere.
Welcomed by everybody.
In a lot of science fiction, they have an idea of silicon based life forms.
Compared to carbon based life forms like we have here on Earth.
Kind of cool from a science fiction standpoint.
But not likely according to a bunch of scientists.
Because a single carbon atom has four valence electrons.
What the F does this mean?
Carbon has four slots to hook up with other atoms.
Silicon also has four, but two of them are pretty weak.
So silicon can’t bond strongly with as many atoms as carbon can bond strongly with.
Oxygen has six valence electrons.
Hydrogen has one.
So carbon, and oxygen and hydrogen can get together in a crap ton of different ways.
Kind of like that high school quarterback from the movie.
The more people you can “make connections” with, the happier you’re social life will be.
The more people will want you at their parties and gatherings.
How can you become like this?
Release any kind of outcome.
Build up your ability to just enjoy people but without having any outcome.
Enjoy other people like carbon and oxygen enjoy other atoms.
Don’t be like those stuck up noble gasses.
Those goofs who are so full of themselves they can’t hook up with anybody.
They’re always hanging out by themselves trying to convince themselves how special they are.
The universe has been around for about 13 billion years.
Enjoy Your Existence
Let’s assume we’re halfway done.
So it’ll be around for another 13 billion years.
And here you are.
Enjoying a hundred years or so of self awareness sandwiched between two 13 billion year periods of who knows what.
Why waste time worrying about stuff that doesn’t really matter?
Engage with people.
Be friendly and outgoing with everybody.
The whole world is waiting for somebody like you.
The hero who can slide in and out of every clique.
And show others how to enjoy life.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.