Who’s He? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May11_Post.mp3 A long time ago I was at this open house. A Japanese style Buddhist church. Not sure if “church” is the right word. But I checked it out, and it was a version of Buddhism invented by a Japanese couple (husband and wife) a few decades earlier. And […]
Ego Love
Multi Layered https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Mar31_Post.mp4 Humans have a ton of instincts. Most of which we have no clue about. Food, sex, status, these are pretty basic. Dudes compete with other dudes. The winners get the social rewards. Fame, money, sex, etc. These are pretty basic. But just like a delicious […]
Calibrated Love
Jigsaw Lovers https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Mar30_Post.mp4 There are two kinds of charisma. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. One is powerful, but not flexible. One is very flexible, but you don’t notice it until you feel it. The first is the kind of charisma most people have experienced. Those gifted folks. Confident, […]
Ancient Leadership Magnetism
You Got This https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan29_Post.mp4 The most powerful human force of human nature is confidence. This isn’t so helpful. Mainly because confidence is something that everybody can describe in their own way. There is specific confidence. And general confidence. General confidence that is REAL is the most compelling human trait you […]
Infinitely Nested Complexity
Old School https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec22_Post.mp4 One of Adam Smith’s famous lines is about enlightened selfishness. The butcher, baker, etc. don’t do what they do because of benevolence. They do so out of self interest. Not steal things from other people self interest. But stable, long lasting, mutual benefit self interest. I, for […]
The Old Friend Seduction Frame
Friendly Frame https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec21_Post.mp4 Most everybody suffers from social anxiety. Most everybody behaves in a much more constrained way around strangers than friends. Particularly old friends. When you’re around old friends, you drop more f-bombs, tell crasser jokes and generally let it all hang out. But when talking to a stranger? […]
Become The Mind Of God
Organic Evolution https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec20_Post.mp4 Emergent systems are pretty cool. A long time ago, a couple of Buddhists were talking about a cart. One guy kept asking the other guy about various parts. See the wheel. Is the wheel the cart? No. See the seat. Is the seat the cart? No. […]
The Most Attractive Male Trait
Ideal Interaction https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec15_Post.mp4 Most folks would kind of admit that the ideal relationship is where the man leads and the women follows. This is how it’s been for a long time. But this is based on the structure of primitive life. Not any kind of “should” idea. But the structure of […]
Get Addicted To A Well Lived Life
Free Lunch? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct15_Post.mp4 The other night I was looking for a movie to watch. Not to sit and watch, but to play in the background while I did other stuff. I thought I had it set to “drama” when I was sorting through. But I found a “documentary” about aliens and hidden […]
Master The Human Condition
Who We Are https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct08_Post.mp4 What is the human condition? Impossible to describe from the outside looking in. Also impossible to describe from inside your human brain. Wait, what? We can describe the human condition in general. And when WE describe OTHER PEOPLE we will almost always have some kind of […]
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