Deep Protection https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan15_Post.mp3 Imagine you have a friend. A potential romantic partner. You’ve been on a couple of dates and your slowly getting closer. You really like this person. You are starting to really care about this person. You feel good when they are happy. You feel bad when […]
Lead Their Desires
Is Vs. Ought https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan14_Post.mp3 The difference between description and prescription is kind of difficult to wrap your brain around. Conceptually, it’s pretty simple. But in real life, knowing the difference isn’t so easy. Science is pure descriptive. People look at the world, and describe what happens. They get more and […]
Magnetic Purpose
True Purpose https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan13_Post.mp3 All ladies, and all people, respond to a guy who has ambition. Job interviews ask those goofy questions for a reason. “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” Having a strong ambition and being proactive go hand in hand. Suppose you answered the job interview question […]
Conversational Superpower
We Are Similar! https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan12_Post.mp3 One way to “accelerate” the romantic cycle is to purposely find things in common. In fact, some folks, on some dating shows, try to find things as QUICKLY as they can. Like on the first date. And then they say, “Wow, we have a lot in common!” […]
Secret Love Hacks
Know Their Mind https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan11_Post.mp3 Imagine if you were a door to door vacuum cleaner salesperson. A job you actually enjoyed. Sure, a pure numbers game. If you sold four cleaners per day, that would be a good living. And let’s just say you sold one for every ten people you talked […]
Deep Perception
Testing…Testing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jun10_Post.mp3 One interesting aspect of psychology is how to test things. Let’s say you’re a marketer. And you want to set up a study. The study will measure the best combination of cheese and snack crackers. So the participants come in and try all the combinations. Three flavors of […]
Reciprocal Love Generator
Cooperation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan09_Post.mp3 Co-evolution is a pretty interesting concept. It is kind of hard to wrap your brain though. Particularly because we use metaphors to describe complex things. For example, consider bees and flowers. To famously co-evolving people. The bees get “free” food from the flowers. The flowers get a […]
Reciprocal Love
Heaven Or Hell? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan08_Post.mp3 Here is an interesting metaphor about heaven and hell. In hell, everybody is sitting in a huge, round room. They’ve all got their backs up against the wall. In the center is a huge pot of delicious smelling food. They have spoons that are long enough to […]
Deliberate Love Generation
When It’s Easy https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan07_Post.mp3 Imagine this crazy kind of diet plan. You look in the mirror, and promise yourself you’ll get a six pack. But you don’t change your behavior. You just kind of hope for the best. Sure, when you’re feeling it, you exercise. But not every day. […]
Love Exchange
Co Evolution https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan06_Post.mp3 Adam Smith once described something very important. Paraphrased, it is the butcher the baker and the brewer don’t get up at the crack of dawn because they are concerned about us. They do that to make the best possible stuff, so we’ll pay for it. Little kids are taught […]