What’s the difference between “fake” game, and “real” game?
One is fake, and one is real!
Just kidding. Fake game can be considered game from the outside in. Maybe you’ve read a few books or courses on how to become more successful with the ladies. You focus on what you wear, how you talk, when to touch her, etc.
These are all external behaviors, that may or may not be congruent with your internal beliefs.
Anytime your external behavior is NOT congruent with your internal beliefs, it’s going to come across as, well, “fake.”
Like when a salesperson is trying to sell you something, and they don’t really believe in the product. This why Zig Zigler, a world famous sales guru, said if you’re going to be selling pots and pans, you’d better be using those same pots and pans on a regular basis.
Not because there’s any moral issues with NOT doing so, just because it’s a lot easier to sell something you believe in.
Same with interacting with the ladies. If you really BELIEVE that you are a great catch, you’ve got a great future, and any girl with half a brain would be LUCKY to be with you, you’ll have it easy. It doesn’t matter what you look like, how much you make or what kind of clothes you’re wearing.
With a rock solid inner game, ANY outer game will do.
Which is why using lines and patterns can sometimes feel very “strange,” like they’re not really “you.”
Because they’re not.
If you feel like you are going to “get caught” or maybe she’s going to see into your heart and call you out on trying to seduce her, then no amount of “outer game” is going to help. Eventually she’ll see the real you.
And if YOU question the real you, so will she. But if YOU accept the real you, then so will she.
That’s why I often recommend that before you use these language patterns on girls, you use them on yourself.
This gives you a double benefit. One, by writing them out over and over, you’ll be drilling them into your brain so deeply they’ll flow from your mouth like honeyed water.
Two is that when you ARE writing them out over and over, you’ll use them to build in some very solid and beneficial beliefs about yourself.
Giving you twice as much power when you go out in the world and use them.