These are inevitable. You know it, she knows it. We all know it.
But they aren’t what most guys think they are.
Lots of guys, especially on all the forums, have a lot of suspicion regarding women and their behavior.
In truth, women are just like us. Trying to get as much good stuff in life with as little effort as possible.
Sex and relationships is no different.
So, what is a sh*t test?
It’s basically her way to measuring the strength of your character.
Kind of like when a guy checks out a girl, and starts to wonder if her boobs are real. We usually wouldn’t be interested unless she caught our attention in the first place, right?
Same with girls.
They don’t test us because they’re trying to hurt us or put us down in front of our friends or cut us down to size or anything.
They’re just trying to see if our personality, game, and “frame” is real.
If we pass her tests, she knows we’re for real, and she can allow herself to become attracted to us.
It’s important to note that all of this happens in her subconscious. She isn’t sitting there in a conversation and then suddenly decides to throw out a test. They just come naturally. And when we pass, her attraction will increase naturally.
Think of it this way. You’re talking to a girl at a bar, she’s cute, and she’s got some nice boobs. You ask, “are those real?” Now, if she said, “no, they’re fake. I got implants so I could get lots of free stuff from guys.” We’d run away in a hurry.
But what if she smiled, took a deep breath, and said, “Yea! Do you like them?” That would likely increase our attraction.
(NOTE: This is an example. DO NOT ask a girl if her boobs are real!)
Similarly, she’s hoping our frame is real, and not just a fake construct to help us get as much action as we possibly can.
So, how do we pass her tests?
Don’t get rattled. If we get rattled, we fail. If we don’t get rattled, we pass. Easy peasy.
If you think something is a test, it likely is. And if it is a test, NEVER EVER take it personally. She’s hoping you won’t. She’s hoping you’ll smile and say, “that’s cute” and keep on talking about what you were talking about.
Do this, and you’ll be MUCH more successful.