Here’s a fun pattern to try when you’re in a playful mood.
It’s a great way to approach, break the ice, and simultaneously “test” her at the same time.
Not only that, but it will kind of put “her” on the spot, so to speak, taking all the pressure off you to come up with some witty, attraction creating line.
Here’s what you do. Take a look at her, and think of a genuine compliment on her looks. Normally, you NEVER should compliment her on her looks, as that’s what every other begging chump does, but you’re going to do it a bit different.
Keep it safe, (e.g. don’t tell her she’s got a great rack) and them “amp it up” so to speak.
For example, if she’s got a cute face, change to an absolutely stunning face.
If she’s got pretty eyes, change it to mesmerizing pools of beauty.
If she’s got a nice body, change it to the figure of an absolute goddess.
(Don’t worry, you’re not going to approach yet).
OK, now that you’ve got your over the top compliment on her physical appearance, you’re going to put it in a hypothetical, second conditional sentence.
“If I were to tell you that you had an absolute stunning face that is mesmerizingly beautiful, what would you say?”
Notice what this does. You’re kind of complimenting her, but not really. It’s as if you’re “thinking out loud,” and wondering if you should go ahead with the compliment or not.
And you’re not asking her permission either, it’s like you’re seeing if her answer will qualify, so you can go ahead and give her the compliment.
And because you’ve phrased it the way you did, she knows exactly what the compliment is going to be.
It’s as if you’re saying:
“I’d really like to tell you how beautiful you are, but I don’t want to waste it. Convince me that it would be a good idea for me to actually compliment you.”
It shows you’re confident, it shows you’re creative, and most importantly it shows that you don’t fully accept her one hundred percent. You’ve taken the effort to approach her and start a conversation, but you’re still not convinced you should continue.
That is up to her, so she’ll feel all the pressure, and not you.
If she freaks out, and acts all weird, she doesn’t pass and you walk away.
If she gets flustered, nervous, and doesn’t know how to answer, you maintain your dominance, cut her some slack and continue talking.
Then later on in the conversation, you can use some of the highly powerful, attraction generating patterns of sales objections.
These will twist her mind in so many directions she won’t know what hit her.