Most guys feel like they’re trying to steal from the cookie jar whenever they think about picking up or otherwise seducing girls.
It’s like she’s going to look into your soul, figure out what you’re up to, and scream out loud to the whole room that you’re some kind of creep or pervert that should be beat to a pulp before being hauled off to prison.
Let’s think about this. Assuming you’re not some kind of ax murderer, and you’ve taken a shower recently, and you don’t have grease stains all over your clothes, how will she likely react?
She sees you, a normal looking guy. Then you do something that clearly indicates you like her, and you’d like to do more than just look at her from across the room.
Now, unless something about you screams that you ONLY want her for sex, and you’re going to eject IMMEDIATELY as soon as you get your rocks off, she’s going to be VERY HAPPY.
Everybody likes attention. Everybody likes to feel wanted. Everybody likes to be pursued (by people that aren’t trying to kill them lol).
She WANTS you to flirt with her. She WANTS you to go up and talk to her. She WANTS you to seduce her.
EVERYTHING about her million-years-old evolutionary programming is compelling her to be as attractive as possible, to guys just like you, so she’ll be swept off her feet, by somebody just like you.
Why else would girls spend so much time, money and effort trying to look sexy?
I know that there’ some myth that girls do this to impress other girls, but this is only half true.
They do this to impress other girls IN COMPETITION FOR MEN.
If girls went where there were NO MEN, and no expectation of men, all the time and effort getting dressed up would be spent on something else.
So, there you are. You see her. She sees you. She WANTS you to be successful.
Sure, she may not write “please come and seduce me” on a huge sign and shake it at you from across the room, but that’s just to filter out all the crazies.
She puts up resistance because she hopes you’ll prove your worth by overcoming it.
Overcoming it with your confidence, your presence, and your language.
And when you use these language patterns, she’ll literally be BLOWN AWAY.