There’s plenty of road blocks between where a guy is, and where he wants to be. Especially when it comes to women.
Sure, we all come into this world preprogrammed to get as much action as we can. But how we get that is another story.
For some guys, (a lot of guys) just feeling comfortable making eye contact and smiling is a monumental achievement.
Then you’ve got to approach her, talk to her, keep her interested, and eject while her interest is still high, so she thinks about you when you’re gone, firing up those all important, self generated emotions of attraction and sexual desire.
Clearly, this hugely important set of skills can easily take a lifetime to master. And that’s if you make a conscious decision to master them, and spend plenty of time improving them.
Most guys don’t even get that far. They just kind of sit around and hope something “magic” happens and “that part” of their lives is somehow, “taken care of.”
While this would be a dream come true, I’m sure you’ve been around long enough to know it just doesn’t happen that way.
Something as complicated AND incredibly rewarding as sexual attraction and fulfillment doesn’t just “take care of itself.”
One of the most crucial parts of the seduction process is how you talk to her. It’s easy to fake it from across the room, but once you’re knee deep in conversation, it’s tough to pretend long enough to create REAL desire.
That’s why having a strong set of flexible language patterns can help.
The kind that allows you to maintain control of the conversational flow, regardless of what she says, or however she inevitably “tests” you to make sure your confidence is real.
Luckily, they’re pretty easy to learn. And once you do, you’ll never feel off-balance again.