Most students hate taking tests. They could be sitting there, happily talking to their friends, when the teacher mentions a test that’s coming up, and suddenly everybody’s happiness crashes down to the floor.
Talking to girls is the same way. Only when girls test, they don’t announce it a week ahead of time. They don’t hand out a syllabus and give you prior warning.
They only do unannounced, pop quizzes. Only they don’t grade them like pop quizzes, they grade them like the final frikking exam.
Meaning if you fail, you’re done. See ya. Bye-bye. Thanks for playing.
Now here’s the good news. Tests are a GOOD thing.
I know what you’re thinking. If only girls would stop “testing” guys, it would be a lot easier, right?
Well, not really.
Hang on, lemme explain.
(There’s two parts to this, so pay attention!)
The first part is she’s testing you because she likes you. If she wanted you to leave her alone, she wouldn’t be busting your balls. She’d be answering your questions with one word, polite responses, while looking everywhere but at you.
So if you’re getting tested consistently, it means that you’re creating attraction consistently.
Good job! (Seriously!)
Here’s the second part. Tests are incredibly easy to pass.
Now, some guys think they need to memorize a whole list of witty responses that will “put her in her place” and show her who’s boss.
These won’t work.
Why?
Because the words of the test don’t matter.
At. All.
It’s how you respond to her that matters. A test is her (a cute girl you’re interested in) throwing out something directed AT YOU, that’s less than kind. It doesn’t matter what.
It’s how you RESPOND EMOTIONALLY that matters. Sure, if you want to playfully reframe her “test,” go right ahead. Just make sure you don’t sound like a butt-hurt little boy.
Here’s the secret: She Wants You To Pass
She’s interested in you, but she’s not quite sure yet. So she “tests” your frame, by throwing unexpected sentences at you, to make sure you’re real and not spitting out a bunch of memorized “cocky and funny” lines.
How do you fail? Anything that gives off the impression of, “How DARE you say that about ME!”
How do you pass? Anything that gives off the impression of, “Cute (smile)…anyway…”
See the difference? The first guy is easily rattled. The second guy? Not so much.
Here’s the basic structure of how to PASS every single test. Simply smile, agree with whatever she said, and keep on talking about what you were talking about BEFORE the test came.
Hold The Frame
And when you hold a strong frame, and combine this by pushing her emotional and psychological triggers (that we’ve ALL got, btw), she won’t help but feel a strong and irresistible attraction to you.
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