Getting a number from a girl is a fantastic accomplish. One that most guys only dream of.
But as I’m sure you know, this is only the beginning.
How you use that number is crucial to how successful you’ll be.
There’s two things that she needs to think about you when she thinks about you for you to have a decent shot.
One is that you’re “different” than most guys.
Two is that you’re not “desperate.”
Luckily, most of the time, simply by not being desperate, you will be in a different category than most guys, since the majority of guys out there are not getting nearly enough.
Now, you’ve got the number, what do you do?
Now, using a strict set of rules is hard to do, especially when you’re emotionally and sexually attracted to her. But you don’t want to shoot yourself in the foot.
If you come on too strong, too often, too quickly, she’ll smell your desperation from a mile away.
And desperation on a guy is like an extra 500 pounds or so on a girl.
So, how do avoid this?
Treat her like you’d treat her if you had ten other girls to choose from.
Meaning that you’d call her in a couple of days, (you wouldn’t text her fifty times a day as if she’s your ONLY source of female contact) and suggest getting together.
If she’s busy, or if she’s not interested, no biggie. After all, a guy with plenty of other choices wouldn’t worry to much about the occasional fish that got away.
The big takeaway her is even if you don’t have a lot of choice, act as if you do.
One way to “pretend” is to take a few minutes BEFORE texting or calling her, and simply recall, as vividly as possible, ALL the women you’ve ever had ANY success with.
And when I say ANY success, I mean ANY success. Sex, kissing, holding hands, even a smile from a stranger. Whatever works.
This can help to “trick” your mind that there really IS a lot of fish in the sea, despite not having gotten any recently (if that is the case with you).
You can also use this trick on yourself before you go anywhere you know there’s gonna be plenty of cute girls.
The great thing about “acting as if” is that if you do it long enough, you won’t need to act any more.
Because it will become your reality.
Knowing what triggers that work on a deep and subconscious level can give you a huge advantage.
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