I get plenty emails from guys asking me about “broken” relationships, and how to fix them.
If you check all the available seduction products, the hottest selling ones, for both guys and girls, is the “get your ex back” variety.
If that describes you, then I’m afraid I’ve got some bad news.
Chances are that once she’s gone, she’s gone.
Sure, you MAY get her back, and if you spend all of your extra time and energy trying, and do EVERYTHING correctly, you may indeed succeed.
But you’ve got to ask yourself:
Is It Worth It?
Economics is called the “Dismal Science” for a reason. It literally forces us to make hard choices. If you choose A, then often time that means you can’t have B.
Because most of us never grow up, and we think we can have A AND B, we hate it when reality forces us to make a decision.
Take getting your ex back, for example.
For starters, it’s going to take a few months. You’re going to have to basically start over, and re-seduce her. Rebuild that attraction that’s been lost.
Naturally, this will take time. AND it means that you’re basically ignoring every other girl on planet Earth.
Now it’s one thing to head out and use some of these skills to create attraction in A qualified woman, but it’s another thing completely to try and create attraction in THE qualified woman.
Think of the message this is sending her, on a deep, subconscious level.
“I’m willing to spend all of my free time chasing you, while you do whatever you want.”
If you are currently suffering from a girl leaving you, I know this isn’t what you want to hear.
But a much better choice would be to FORGET HER.
Find somebody else.
And keep meeting and interacting with girls until you find one that meets ALL of your criteria.
And here’s one criteria that you might consider.
You will ONLY get into a committed relationship after SHE has made it clear that’s what SHE wants, and she knows, consciously and unconsciously, that she’s got to convince YOU to agree.
That way, she’s committed to the relationship MORE THAN YOU, which means she’ll know she’s got to put in some effort to keep it going.
And as the law of commitment and consistency tells us, we humans will generally keep doing things that we’ve been doing.
You keep chasing her, she’ll keep running.
She keeps chasing YOU, and she’ll keep chasing.
Which would YOU rather have?
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