There was an interesting study done many years ago, regarding attraction and self perception.
They took several males, and sent them out to places where people go to interact socially, hopefully with the opposite sex.
They followed these male “test subjects” by about ten minutes with a team of researchers.
They would first send a “test subject” into a bar or club, then go in afterwards, and ask the females their perceptions. Basically they were looking to see how attractive they test subjects appeared, on a scale of one to ten.
They set up the test as follows. Each test subject would walk into a particular bar two different ways. One way with upright posture, and shoulders back, head held high, and eyes forward.
The second way was with shoulders slumped, head down, hands in pockets.
They they took the average difference between position one and position two, between all test subjects. That way the test wouldn’t be affected by levels of attraction between subjects. All they were looking for was the difference their posture made.
And the average was what you’d expect. Guys with upright posture were perceived to be fully two points more attraction.
Meaning if girls thought he was a six (out of ten) with his shoulders slumped, they thought he was an eight (out of ten) with an upright posture.
This means that simply by walking around with some self confidence, and self confident body language and behavior, you’ll be much more attractive to all the ladies around you.
Keep in mind, this study was done with guys who were just “pretending” to have different body language types.
As I’m sure you can guess, having REAL confidence, backed by REAL beliefs in yourself, will boost your attraction even more.
What’s more, the safe belief changing language patterns you can use on yourself, can also be used on her.
Making you literally irresistible.
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