Chasing women is built into our genes, and it seems to be the fall back position for most guys. Luckily, it’s not the only way get the girl of your dreams.
See, there’s plenty of pre-programmed “strategies” that are in our brains. They were put there by Mother Nature or God or whomever, and they were very, very useful in a hunter gatherer society.
However, the society we live in today is vastly different, so those pre-set “programs” don’t always work.
For example, back in the caveman days, if you didn’t gorge yourself until you couldn’t move every time you found something good to eat, you wouldn’t have survived the inevitable lean times when hunters couldn’t find jack.
However, if you operate from that mindset to day, you’d quickly get so fat you wouldn’t be able to get out of bed, and you’d need a crane to take you to the toilet. Sadly, plenty of people let themselves get this far.
Another “pre-programmed” strategy is the idea that guys have to chase women. Sure, that idea worked when we lived in small groups of a couple hundred folks. Back then, sex to a woman was a once a lifetime kind of deal. If she got laid by the wrong guy, she was an outcast, and didn’t likely have a lot of healthy kids.
On the other hand, girls who put up a huge fight, so to speak, were pretty much guaranteed that the only guys that got through her filters were the guys that really, really, really wanted her and were ready to make a life long commitment in exchange for a roll in the hay.
Nowadays, our conscious minds, both male and female, know that it’s OK for girls to chase guys. It doesn’t mean they’re going to get kicked out of the “tribe.”
They just need a little encouragement.
And it’s your job to give it to them.
How? Certainly not consciously, or logically. Don’t walk up to a girl and try to negotiate some good times.
The trick is to show clear, open and honest interest. Make her feel good. Escalate a bit. Then pull back. Always leave her wanting more.
This is tricky, but when you can get her thinking in just the right balance of emotions, she’ll literally go crazy for you.
You want her wishing you’d escalate just a little bit more, but at the same time realizing that you aren’t doing so NOT because you’re shy or timid, you’re just taking your sweet time for reasons she can’t fathom.
Once she passes the tipping point, you won’t be able to hold her back.
Naturally, this requires a certain mindset. The confidence and “prosperity mindset” of an alpha male that KNOWS deep down in his gut that he can get plenty of girls, so it’s no big deal to take his time, and fire up her desire.
To build in that on a deep level, and unconsciously increase your skills, check this out:
It will give you a whole new perspective.