In “law of attraction” circles, they say you’re better off focusing on what you’ve got, rather than what you haven’t got.
The theory is that if you focus on lack, you’ll get more lack.
If you focus on abundance, you’ll get more abundance.
Makes sense, right?
How can you leverage this to get more success with women?
Here’s a tale of two guys. Both haven’t been laid in a while. Both would kill for some action.
First guys’ walking down the street,sees a cutie. He catches her eye, she kind of smiles at him before breaking off eye contact.
He thinks to himself, “I’ll NEVER get a girl like her!” And looks down at the ground dejectedly.
Second guy’s walking down the street, sees the same girl, and gets the same reaction. Only he thinks:
“Wow, there sure are a lot of cuties out today. I wonder how many I’ll make eye contact with?”
The first guy focused on what he doesn’t have (a girlfriend).
The second guy focuses on what he DOES have (opportunities).
Now, obviously, just switching you’re thinking like this isn’t going to make horny females rain down from the heavens, begging to jump on your johnson.
But it WILL create a much more outgoing, confident, and charismatic attitude. It won’t happen overnight, but if you FORCE your brain to think like the second guy, in a short while you’ll be not only making eye contact, but you’ll be talking to and number closing more and more girls.
Because you will have trained your brain to associate the idea of “plenty of women out there” with each and every girl you see.
Try this out, and see.