One thing that will kill any seduction you’re been working on is waiting for a conscious response.
I know, this can be the hardest thing to do. But if you’re waiting for a green light that is so obvious, think of what you’re REALLY asking.
When a girl feels attracted to you, she CAN’T not show it. It will come across in her body language, facial expression, her response to your physical touch, and even the color of her cheeks, lips, and the size of her pupils. (This is why poker players often wear sunglasses btw).
If you’re waiting for her to look at you and say something like, “I want to give you my phone number, ” or “I want you to kiss me,” or “I want you to take me somewhere where we can be alone,” it ain’t gonna happen.
Sure, it may happen in the movies, but when they write movies, they assume movie goers aren’t really going to be paying attention to all the micro-unconscious signs of attraction.
Whenever you’re out talking to or otherwise interacting with girls, it’s a good idea to just ASSUME that they’ll NEVER give you any conscious green lights.
It’s YOUR JOB to study all the small, micro movements. It’s YOUR JOB to slowly push the envelope, test, and see how she responds.
Most guys DON’T do this. They walk up, say something, and wait around for a verbal OK, or some kind of reward.
Guys go home empty handed and complain that they didn’t get any “green lights.”
Girls are giving out green lights ALL THE TIME.
One of the presuppositions of NLP is that you CANNOT “not communicate.” It’s just that most of us have been so dumbed down that we think communication is ONLY words.
Just keep in mind that for hundreds of thousands of years, humans communicated WITHOUT ANY WORDS.
There’s plenty of stuff there, the actual words she uses are just icing on the cake.
So get into the habit of paying attention all the things EXCEPT the words she’s using, and you’ll suddenly notice that there’s a billion times more opportunities out there than you think there are.
To amp up her unconscious signs of attraction even further, learn how to communicate directly TO her subconscious, bypassing all the conscious nonsense that only gets in the way.