I remember once I was playing racquetball with a buddy of mine.
I usually beat this guy, but this particular day, I was getting absolutely smoked. We normally played best of seven, meaning the first guy to win 4 games was the winner.
We usually played five or six games.
But on this particular day, I was down three games to zero, and was deep in the hole on the fourth. Meaning I was about to get shut down.
Then I had a sudden thought that turned everything around. I came back, much to my buddies shock, and won four games to three.
What was the thought?
“If I get blown out, I won’t get to play any more.”
Meaning if I lost, we’d stop playing. And we wouldn’t play again until a week or so later. He had just had a couple of kids (twins) and didn’t get that much time off from family life.
The fear of not being able to play motivated me much more than the fear of losing.
Think of how this applies to game.
You like girls, right?
You like talking to girls, right?
Think this next time you’re thinking about approaching. Forget about succeeding or failing. Forget about getting her number or not getting her number.
Just focus on playing. Enjoying the game. Enjoying her. Making her laugh. Making her enjoy you. Drinking in that beautiful feminine energy of attraction and desire that is, hands down, the strongest drug on planet Earth.
Forget about winning or losing, and just enjoy the game. Do this, and you WILL go all the way.
Boosting your language skills will help.