One of the hottest selling seduction type products is not really a seduction type product.
In fact, there’s about an equal number of guys AND girls buying this type of product.
What’s the theme?
Get your ex back.
One of the biggest mysteries of human nature is that we rarely appreciate something until it’s gone. All those folks who are shelling out big cash to “win back” their ex are also the same folks that didn’t likely spend much time or effort to keep it going before everything went down in flames.
One of the main reasons for this is scarcity. This is very common in advertising. Rarely do you see any kind of ad or product these days without some kind of scarcity tagged on. Limited time only. Get it while it lasts, sale ends tomorrow, etc.
So when those poor folks are within a relationship, they don’t value it because it’s not scarce. They think they’ve got it. But when it’s gone, suddenly it’s the most important thing in the world. They can’t sleep, they can’t eat, and they don’t want somebody else. They ONLY want he or she who doesn’t want them.
Now, clearly, if you are the one getting dumped, there’s not much in this world that feels worse.
But the sad truth is that once it’s over, it’s usually over.
The good news is that you can use this facet of human nature to your advantage.
If you make yourself too available, or call or text too often, you’re losing HUGE opportunity.
When you make yourself scarce, on the other hand, you’ll be creating a HUGE amount of desire in the other person.
Take a look at two situations to drive this point home.
Both scenarios involve a guy and a girl who just met. They both have equal, medium level feelings for each other. At this stage, they could really take or leave each other. Kind of a 5 on a scale of 1-10 desire wise.
In situation one, the guy is desperate, and will take anything he can get. He calls her, texts her, promises her the moon in hopes she’ll reciprocate.
What happens? His neediness and desperation turns her off, and it’s over before it starts.
In situation two, the guy plays it cool. He calls her ONLY to set up a date. And the dates are always over before SHE wants them to be over, making her want him more and more each time. He doesn’t push it, he’s not trying to get into her panties like some guy who just finished a ten year prison stint.
What happens to her interest? THROUGH THE ROOF.
Same starting point, different ending point. One guy’s lonely, the other guy has some girl dreaming about him at night.
Which guy do you want to be?
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