Nice Guy Bad?
Why are nice guys despised by most women?
First, there are two kinds of nice guys.
“Normal” nice guys are just nice.
They like being nice.
They like being friendly.
And critically, they don’t have any ulterior motive.
These guys might not be super seductive lady killers, but they are NOT repulsive.
The creepy nice guys are the “fake” nice guys.
These nice guys are like most others, in that they look at gorgeous women and think:
“Jiminy Christmas! I’d love to get me some of THAT!”
But nice guys and normal guys differ in a very, very critical way.
Nice guys see ladies as objects.
They see them from a very, very selfish mindset.
So their “niceness” is not genuine.
It’s based on an assumption of what she likes.
Or what she is SUPPOSED to like.
For example, imagine that this nice guy believes that women like compliments.
And yes, given genuinely, EVERYBODY likes compliments.
But the nice guy gives the compliments ONLY BECAUSE he expects something in return.
He’s ALREADY got it set up in his mind.
He gives her a compliment.
She smiles and says:
“Wow, you’re so sweet! Please take my phone number!”
But she never does this.
But the nice guy has an EXPECTATION.
So when he doesn’t get what he thinks he deserves, he gets ANGRY.
That anger is just below the surface.
Always ready to blow.
But a deeper problem with the nice guy is this is really a cover.
A cover for a deep fear of attractive ladies.
And the power they alleged have over the nice guy.
So nice guys think ONLY in superficial terms.
Be nice, get a girlfriend.
What about the non fake nice guy?
He gives compliments ONLY because he likes to see the ladies smile.
Even if never expects to see them again.
He OPENLY appreciates attractive woman.
He knows that every single person is different.
He knows that every single person, men and women, have deep and complex personalities.
And that simply by being himself, he’ll only really “click” with a small percentage of women.
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But that doesn’t matter.
Because these guys don’t talk to girls hoping they’ll click, and go all the way.
He doesn’t look at girls and ONLY want sex or love or affection.
He sees a pretty girl and enjoys appreciating her.
So the NATURAL response is to see if there is anything MORE about her that he can appreciate.
This is the main reason these guys start conversations with women.
If it goes somewhere, cool.
If not, also cool.
Because this guy only likes to ENJOY women so much as she is enjoying him.
Every single lady he looks at will have a different length and depth of this mutual enjoyment.
Some WILL go all the way.
Enjoy women in any way you can, and life becomes much, much more positive.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.