There is a lot of pain and frustration in today’s dating market.
And there is also a lot of misunderstanding.
The misunderstanding comes from only seeing the outer layer of what happens.
When you live on the sidelines, all you know is what you see.
Most people today are entitled, and live on the sidelines.
This is a very difficult thing to think about.
But something has transitioned in modern society, and not for the better.
This transition has been happening for several decades.
For example, there’s movie called “Cinderella Man,” with Russell Crowe.
About a boxer during the Depression.
More or less true story.
A guy whose dream was to become champion.
A guy who was willing to do ANYTHING to become champion.
Of course, he still had to earn enough money to feed is family.
Abandoning this responsibility was absolutely not an option.
He hurt his hand boxing.
But he still had to work.
So he HID his injury so he could get a job doing manual labor.
Lifting up stuff and putting it on trucks.
Taking care of his family was so important letting an injury keep from working was absolutely NOT an option.
His dream of success was so important that letting an injury get in his way was absolutely NOT an option.
This is old school human DRIVE.
The kind that is very, very rare today.
Finding a suitable partner requires this kind of drive.
Finding a keeping a positive relationship has ALWAYS required this kind of drive.
Give Me Give Me
But for some reason, modern humans believe we are ENTITLED to what we want.
As if all we need to do is “name it” and “claim it.”
This is why the dating market is such a trainwreck.
Everybody WANTS something.
But nobody feels they need to GIVE something in exchange for what they want.
We’ve all been brainwashed to believe that we are so special, that we only need to show up and get a bunch of free stuff.
Humans have been living in groups, before we were humans, for millions of years.
The kind of subconscious communication that flows back and forth is ENORMOUS.
But you can’t see this or even feel this from the sidelines.
And believe it or not (most are terrified to) this kind of inner game is FAR more important than the stuff you can ONLY SEE from the sidelines.
This is the kind of thing you need to work on to create a fantastic relationship.
These are the kinds of skills to slowly build.
These are the kinds of traits that will radiate huge attraction on a subconscious level.
Get off the sidelines and get in the game.
It’s a lot more fun, and a lot less terrifying than most will EVER realize.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.