When a girl tests you, how do you respond?
There’s three or four ways that are pretty common responses, but not all of them are helpful.
But first, let’s understand what those “tests” mean. Most guys assume they are disrespectful, or meant to take you down a notch.
But they are called “tests” for a reason. Her cave girl brain wants to fast track her attraction to you. She wants to dig you, but unlike guys, she can’t tell by looking at you if she finds you attractive or not.
So her subconscious cave girl mind gets her to spit out those “tests” to see how you respond. Pass her tests, and you’ll be on the fast track to the goods.
Back to the common responses.
The most common, and the worst response, is to be offended, act butt-hurt, and pout like a little boy.
FAIL
The next common is to still get offended and butt-hurt, but try to “outframe” her “tests” with some kind of snappy com back. Now, this CAN work, but it’s got to be 100% playful. Any hint of butt-hurtedness and you FAIL.
The next way to respond, and pass with flying colors, so to simply ignore the test, and just keep on rolling with the conversation. Just look at her like she just spoke Martian or something. This shows her that you’ve got strength of character, you’re self-confident, and you can’t be rattled. Three traits that make her panties wet.
The fourth, which makes her attraction for you grow even more, is to come back with a snappy reframe, but not AGAINST what she said, but in the SAME DIRECTION.
For example, let’s say that she picks up that you like playing video games. The she makes some kind of snide comment, about video games, virgins and geeks.
A butt hurt response would be to get angry, and pout. A second order response would be to flip the statement around, to make it sound like video gamers aren’t virgin geeks, but major sex gods. Now, if this is done playfully, you’ll win. But if you sound like you’re trying to win an actual argument with her, you’ll lose.
A third order statement would be to simply ignore it and keep on talking.
The fourth and final level would be to reframe, but make it sound like you are PROUD of the fact that you are KING GEEK, and have taken a vow of lifelong chastity, because otherwise, having sex would mess with your video gaming skills.
Do THIS playfully, and this will ramp up her attraction faster and further than most guys think is possible.
Of course, having a brain filled with flexible language patterns so you can do this anywhere, any time will be INCREDIBLY helpful.
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