Have you ever met a girl whose dream was to stay home, read books, and NEVER meet her Prince Charming?
Me neither.
Just like all guys crave sex, 24/7, all girls crave Mr. Right.
Sometimes Mr. Right Now.
So when you’re talking to her, she’s not busily thinking to herself:
“Jeez, I need to think of a way to get rid of this creep…”
Or you’d know it. Trust me on this.
She’s more than likely thinking something like this:
“He seems interesting. I hope he becomes more interesting and attractive.”
Why is she thinking this? Because when a guy looks at a girl, he knows right away if she’s hot or not.
But when girls interact with guys? They need some conversation. They’re much more dependent on things like character, self confidence, communication, etc. They don’t have it so easy. It takes time for girls to generate attraction.
Imagine you walk into a room, that’s filled with smoke. You see a girl across the room. She looks like she might be hot.
You get close, and her figure and face start to appear through the haze.
Now, be honest. What are you thinking at this point?
“I hope she’s hot.”
or
“I hope she’s ugly.”
Nobody in their right mind would look at a vague figure and hope she’s ugly.
Just like when a girl talks to a guy, she’s NOT thinking:
“Boy I hope this guy turns out to be a jerk!”
She’s thinking:
“I hope he gets more attractive. That would be AWESOME!”
See, she WANTS you to succeed.
And naturally, so do you.
Make sense?