Here’s a quick tip that you can practice anywhere, any time and quickly build up your confidence.
Now, this may go against what the gurus preach about never complimenting girls, but I’m sure if you try it you’ll know why this works.
Next time you’re out in public, and you see a cute girl (either alone or with her friends), walk up to her and tell her you think she’s pretty, or cute, or whatever.
Now, you AREN’T trying to seduce her, or get her number, or even get her name.
This is just a quick, hit and run, exercise. Since you’re not trying to “get anything,” and since you’re ONLY outcome is to go up and “spit it out,” so to speak, you CANNOT FAIL.
Now, it’s true that hot girls get hit on all the time, and get all kinds of compliments. But virtually every time they are complimented, there’s always an ulterior motive. It’s always some beta “nice guy” complimenting her because he thinks that’s the ticket to her golden kingdom.
But when you walk up, and say something like this,
“Hi, sorry to bother you, I don’t want your number or anything, I just wanted to tell you I think you’re really hot!”
Then smile, and walk away. Don’t even wait for a response. If she starts to say something, other than “thanks!” Just smile, and say,
“Seriously, I’m not interested in picking you up or anything, I just wanted to tell you that. See ya.”
This whole exercise should take no more than twenty seconds, if that.
Why is this so powerful? Because most girls are NEVER complimented like this. If they are, it’s usually by a guy who’s to hang around and wait for something.
But when first say you’re not after her number, then confidently compliment her, and then leave, she won’t know what to think.
Which means you’ll be leaving a trail of hot girls that are pleased, and confused.
And that will make you feel pretty damn good.