Here’s a metaphor from the law of attraction. When you’re baking cookies, you shouldn’t keep opening the oven door to see if they’re done.
Or put another way, if you’re intending to grow an orange tree, you shouldn’t keep digging up the seeds to see if they’ve sprouted yet.
Now, according to the law of attraction, if you’re manifesting something, you should do the work, do the meditations, whatever, and then let go. Let nature do the rest.
If you keep checking to see how your results are coming, you’ll mess everything up.
How is this applicable to seduction?
First, realize that attraction happens on an unconscious basis. She can’t logically decide to become attracted to you any more than you can rationally choose which girls you’d like to sleep with. (Everything else being equal).
Now, this can be a hard concept for a lot of guys to get their minds around. Girls are attracted to guys from completely different reasons that guys are attracted to girls.
When a guy sees a girl, he knows right off the bat if he’s into her or not. It happens in a split second.
But when I girl sees a guy, she doesn’t know yet. If she’s physically attracted, that’s just one piece of the puzzle. In order to really feel deep attraction and emotional longing, she’s going to need to interact with him.
Talk to him, test him a few times, maybe even spend some time away from him.
BUT (and this is crucial) just because it takes time for her to become attracted, this DOES NOT mean it’s a conscious process.
It’s just unconscious as you wanting to bang that big breasted hottie you just saw a split second ago.
It’s just that for girls, that unconscious process is stretched out over time.
Like the cookies in the oven, or the seeds in the ground.
Guys who aren’t sure if she likes him or not will want to force the issue. Like opening the oven door or digging up the seeds.
But if her unconscious hasn’t been triggered yet, forcing the decision up into her conscious mind will ruin the process.
Meaning you’ll kill any chance you’ve got.
This can be the toughest thing to do for a guy. But if her unconscious is in the process of becoming attracted to you, LET IT HAPPEN.
Don’t talk about it, don’t try and get any kind of validation or reassurance.
Think of female attraction like Fight Club.
Remember the first rule of fight club? NEVER talk about Fight Club.
Let the seeds of attraction grow. DON’T ever ask her to agree consciously that she likes you, or she’s becoming attracted to you, or you two had fun the other night.
Just assume it’s happening, and let it happen some more.
When she passes the point of no return, when she’s totally into you, and she can’t get enough of you, YOU WILL KNOW.
If you aren’t sure, IT HASN’T HAPPENED YET.
Until then, just let it happen.
And of course, using the unconscious mind triggers to help her get there will give you a much better chance.