Please Hire Me
Imagine this scenario.
There you are, on one side of the room.
A room filled with plenty of different people.
Maybe a bar.
Maybe a club.
Maybe a house party.
And on the other side of the room, is a pretty lady.
One with whom you’ve made flirty and brief eye contact.
You’ve kind of smiled at her, and she kind of smiled back.
So far, neither of you can maintain eye contact for more than a few moments.
This is when the three second rule is in full force.
The longer you wait to go over and say hey, the less likely you’ll get a positive outcome.
Of course, this isn’t really true.
She may be shy without much experience.
So if you stroll over there like gangbusters, you may blow yourself out.
On the other hand, she could have tons of orbiters on tap she can call in case of emergency.
So unless you jet on over there, you’ll miss out.
What to do?
Let’s Do This
So let’s say your intuition is firing on all cylinders in this particular mind experiment.
So you don’t think much, and you’re on your way.
And as you walk over there, you notice that she gets a little bit excited, and nervous.
You can see her take a deep and nervous breath, getting ready for the exchange.
Not a breath that indicates she’s going into fight or flight mode.
But not a breath that says her dreams are about to come true.
Basically, the way you behave with her will set the tone.
If you behave “correctly” she’ll tilt toward dream come true.
If you behave “incorrectly” she’ll tilt toward fight or flight.
Of course, correct and incorrect are only based on what works, or what doesn’t.
So the money question.
What DO you do?
How to you speak to her to increase your chances?
What kinds of things do you talk about to increase your chances?
I’m Your Salvation
Do you pitch yourself as her Knight in shining armor?
Tell her about your successes, your ambitions, your dreams, your bank account, your car, your credit score, your impressive hobbies?
This is the general strategy for most guys.
To TELL her things about yourself.
Things you HOPE will impress her.
But even before you open your mouth, this strategy is a kind of self fulfilling trap.
Because as soon as you try and tell her with your stats, or impress her with your worldly accomplishments, she will put you in the SAME category.
All the dudes who ever talked to her and tried to impress her.
You may as well stroll over, hand her your resume and say:
Hi, I know you’ve got a lot of options when it comes to men, so here’s my resume and my number.
Please call me if you think I might have a chance with you.
This is essentially the SAME strategy nearly every guy uses.
And, as you can guess, unless you can TOP every other guy in every other category, this strategy is almost guaranteed to fail.
But what about another strategy?
One that will put you in a completely DIFFERENT category in her mind?
And put YOU head and shoulders above every other drooling resume game playing goof?
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.