Here’s a tip to see how imaginative she is, and how open she is to you.
You can use this after the approach, and after you’ve gotten a few unconscious, “all clear” signals from her.
You basically tell her a story about how a buddy of yours fell in love. Start off by saying how stupid or lame you think it is, and how you and all your other guy friends are always giving him a hard time.
Just describe how he met this girl, and they instantly hit it off.
Don’t worry about using any kind of weasel tips or self points or anything like that.
Just describe how your “buddy” feel completely head over heels for this girl, and that whenever he talks about her, he changes his voice, facial expressions, etc.
It doesn’t to be a current buddy. Just mention somebody you know, or somebody you knew. You don’t have to say how long ago, so it could be all the way back from grade school.
Two things are crucial. One is that when you are describing how they “fell” for each other, be as descriptive as possible. Describe how they look at each other with doe eyes, and all that.
The other thing is that you’ve got to make it sound like you are disgusted (in a playful way) about the whole situation. Like disgusted on the surface, but below the surface you’re kind of happy for him.
What will this do? Plenty.
One is it will get her thinking in terms of “falling in love” while talking to you.
Two is that she’ll start to convince you that it’s a good thing (maybe) OR she may agree with you that people who fall hard at first site are lame (maybe). Either way will tell you which way to take the conversation.
Three is that you’ll get her thinking those romantic feelings while talking about somebody else, so she won’t offer up the same resistance if you were trying to seduce her directly.
Four is that deep down, she’ll wish she were falling hard, as this is hard wired in ALL girls. Even if she’s got a boyfriend (or even married) and you’re just talking to her “as friends.” All girls LOVE a story of a guy who’s “tamed” by a woman. Again, she’ll be thinking these thoughts and desires while listening and looking you.
Try it out, and have some fun.