The easiest way to get somebody to do what you want is to circumvent their conscious mind, and speak directly to the unconscious.
There are plenty of ways to do this. Getting an automatic “reaction” out of somebody is one way. Doctors can test your reflexes by making you “kick” without your conscious buy in.
Advertisers have been studying this aspect (very successfully) for years in hopes of getting us to buy things against our will.
To a large extent, it’s working fairly well.
Think of a girl you like. Think of something you’d like her to do. Now, one way would be to get on her good side, get her in a good mood, and then simply ask her.
Maybe you start talking to her, demonstrate your value, and ask for her phone number.
Or maybe you’d like a certain girl to return your calls rather than you being the one calling, emailing, and texting her all the time.
The easiest way to get her to do what you want is to get her to want to do what you want.
That way, it’s her idea, which means she’ll do it even more enthusiastically.
What’s better, if you can figure out a way to get her to do what you want, so that you’ll do what she wants, it’s even better.
For example, let’s say you’d like her to call you more often. You could ask her. Or you could give her a subtle “reward” when she calls, so she’ll start to call you because she wants to rather than because you want her to.
A great way to do this is the “George Costanza” seduction pattern. Always leave on a high note.
Most guys, whenever they’re with girls, are shy when it comes to closing the deal. They subsequently hang around past the time when the iron’s hot.
But if you can “bail out” right when things are getting interesting, you’ll leave her wanting more.
Now, this won’t work on a first approach, but once you’ve got her number, this works great.
As soon as you start getting some positive feedback, eject. Pull back and get her to chase you.
The wonderful thing about human nature is that the more we do something, the more we feel it’s “natural.”
And when you get her to chase you a few times, especially early on in the relationship, it will set a strong frame for how things will go down later.
A great way to get her feeling those good thoughts is by using certain language patterns.
This way, they’ll tap her desires on a deep level, which will always get her wanting more.
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