When you think of practicing skills for seduction, what comes to mind? If you’re like most guys, you tend to think of practicing your openers, practicing overcoming inevitable tests, how to spot IOI’s across the room. Maybe some advanced conversational tactics.
But there’s one more that’s incredibly powerful, yet almost nearly forgotten by most guys.
What is it?
Think about this common rule in negotiation. He who wants the deal the least has the most power.
Fundamentally, it’s based on the principle that we want what we can’t have more than what we do have. The law of scarcity, the grass is always greener, etc. This is programmed deep into our DNA.
Now, think how this applies to attraction. We all know that attraction isn’t a choice, either for guys or girls. We can’t help who we are drawn to.
So, one powerful element in your tool kit of seduction is simply be the one who wants the “deal” least.
Now, when a guy walks up to a girl, this is almost never the case. As I’m sure you know, if you blatantly disqualify her, she’s got tons of other guys who’d gladly put her up on a pedestal and tell her what a princess she is.
It would seem that guys have a disadvantage at this point.
Unless you specifically cultivate this quality.
See, girls can sense things on a deep level, much more so than guys can. For example, no matter how hard you try and hide your sexual intentions, she’s going to feel them. And respond to them, for better or for worse.
But what happens if she senses your ability to walk at a moments notice?
What if you are gaming her, so she feels those wonderful emotions, but you are also giving off the “scent” of having an itchy finger right on the eject button.
She would mentally and unconsciously compare you to all the other guys she’s spoken to recently, and all the guys that are in that particular area.
And in the face of your strange mixture and presence, she would find them all lacking.
So how do you practice this skill? Practice disqualifying and ejecting. Most guys tell themselves they’ll be able to do it when it’s necessary, but once their neck deep in femininity, it’s game over for the ejection button.
So consider taking some to cultivate this skill. Actually go out and practice ejecting. Practice talking to girls, finding out something that you consider a deal breaker or a red flag, and eject.
To make this much easier, program your mind, on a deep and subconscious level, of the qualities of an alpha male.
This will make it much, much, easier to feel on an ancient level, that you have many options, and can easily leave at any time.
Making you the best thing that’s ever happened to her.
To find out how to easily cultivate this mindset on a deep level, check this out:
You’ll suddenly be head and shoulders above everybody else.