Which one are you?
Of course, there’s plenty of ways to categorize plenty of things, in this post we’ll talk about levels of enthusiasm, and content.
Enthusiasm refers to how “good” you feel about yourself, and are willing to express that to others.
Content refers to the actual stuff you are talking about.
Low levels of enthusiasm, and low valued content. This is the boring guy who talks about boring stuff. Don’t be this guy. This guy never gets laid.
Low levels of enthusiasm, high valued content. This is the rich doctor with the personality of a doorknob. These are the guys that have zero game but hot wives. If they ever lost their jobs, their girls would be gone in a heartbeat. It’s clear to everybody but the guy that she’s only into you for the money.
High levels of enthusiasm, low valued content. This is the natural “player” that you see all the time, with plenty of hot girls. The guy who makes barely over minimum wage, but pulls hotties like he’s Hugh Hefner. Why? He creates subconscious attraction that girls can’t resist. Subconsciously, they see him super and honestly enthusiastic about all the regular things of life, and hope that he’ll become that enthusiastic about her. This guy is easy to be. Simply appreciate what you have, who you are, and share that appreciation with others. The quickest way to natural game.
This guy is as rare as a two-horned unicorn. (Which, I suppose, would make it a dual-acorn). Rich, great job, and still enthusiastic about life. To women, this guy is the jackpot. But they are very rare.
The path between where you are now, and becoming that level 3 guy is as easy as releasing your anxieties, and being happy with what you have, and sharing that happiness with others.
Because people treat you the way you treat yourself. When you appreciate yourself, others will as well.