How you view the world, or your model, will have a profound impact on your ability to get what you want, through interactions with people in the world.
If you think the world is a cold and miserable place, all you’ll see when you’re out and about are people that will take the first opportunity they get to eat your liver.
On the other hand, if you think the world is filled with people looking for beneficial social and business relationships, you’ll likely make a lot of friends and potentially lucrative contacts.
Naturally, you can go too far with this. If you believe the world is filled with people who’d gladly give you a sack of gold tomorrow for a stack of cash today, you’re gonna go broke real quick.
How does this apply to getting girls?
Most guys move through the world feeling, on a subconscious level, that they are at a “lower” level of “value” than the girls they are attracted to.
When they see a cute girl, they feel they need to “impress her,” or use some techniques to “win her over” or “get her to like him,” as if she is the dispenser of all things good and pure.
Clearly, you can see how this impoverished model is not very conducive to seduction.
However, one needs to be careful with another model. Which says that all women are garbage, men are kings, and they are lucky to enter into our world.
Sure, this may boost your self confidence and ego, and you’ll certainly find girls that are attracted to the “jerk” type of guy, but is that what you really want?
Here’s a different frame you can try on.
And that is that ALL girls WANT to be seduced. All girls want to fall in love. All girls want to be swept off their feet.
And guess what? Unless she’s calling the cops when you start talking to her, she’s hoping it’s going to be YOU.
So your job when talking to girls, is not to impress them, or entertain them, or prove to them that you are worthy.
Your job is to HELP THEM. To make it easy on them. To do what?
Fall in love with you.
You’re the man, so take charge. Lead the conversation. Make her feel comfortable. Read her body language and facial expressions, and figure out what pace to go at.
Help her find out why you’ve got what it takes to make her feel those feelings she so desperately craves.
To help out, here’s a collection of powerful language patterns that you can flexibly use to weave incredibly hypnotic conversations that will fire up her emotions in all the right ways.
You can learn more about it here: