If you spend a lot of time on seduction message boards, a few common themes will start to emerge.
One of them is that women are hopelessly illogical, and men are the champions of reason and deductive and conscious thought.
I say that is utter and complete nonsense.
Because BOTH men and women are illogical and more often than not, driven by irrational emotions.
Don’t believe me?
What did you eat for dinner last night?
Why did you eat it?
Did you take time to decide consciously what you wanted, based on the ratios of good fats to bad fats, the average glycemic index rise from the various carbs you were ingesting, and the vitamin profile of the foods you were eating?
Or did you choose simply because of convenience, taste, and affordability?
The truth about human thought is pretty much all of us, all the time, are driven by emotions. Only we quickly make up rational stories after the fact, and then convince ourselves that those rational stories are the cause of our behavior, rather than the effect.
And just like all peculiarities of human behavior, this is easier seen in others than in ourselves.
So when you’re trying to get women, but NOT getting as many women as you want, you do something else that is common to ALL people.
Instead of blaming yourself, you blame them. (Whoever THEM happens to be.)
And when you blame THEM, you focus on THEM, and put THEIR behavior under a microscope, and ignore your own.
Which, of course, makes women look like irrational creatures with some kind of random behavior generator between their ears.
While ignoring your own illogic and randomness.
So what’s the answer?
Stop thinking so logically. Stop looking for proof, or scientific reasons. Stop using advanced calculus and reverse engineering to try and comprehend what she really “means.”
Just trust your gut. Make some moves, and see what happens.
Hooking up is not meant to be a logical exercise, so stop making it one. Just try something, anything, and see what happens.
So long as you’ve got an overall goal in mind, your subconscious will help you learn from your mistakes, so you’ll do better next time.
And having an idea of those unconscious triggers that we’ve all got, including the blind spots that keep us from seeing things the way they really are, will make it much easier, smoother, and more natural.
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