There’s plenty of unconscious factors that go into how a girl feels about you.
And luckily, for guys, many of these have nothing to do with looks.
For example, if you’re famous, girls will swoon over you even if you break mirrors when you walk past them.
Or if you’ve got some gorgeous girl on your arm, all the other girls won’t be able to take their eyes off you.
Or if they’ve convinced themselves that they want you more than you want them, (like they’re always waiting for you to return their calls rather than the other way around) they won’t give up chasing you.
But there’s one powerful element that will trump all of these.
The above triggers are based largely on how others perceive you. Meaning she’ll look to other people to figure out how she should feel about you.
This doesn’t happen consciously. But when she sees that you’re an in-demand and popular guy, she’ll suddenly “feel” an unconscious attraction to you.
She won’t know why, and she’ll likely make up some plausible sounding reason, but you know the real truth.
However, there’s a way to go beyond this. After all, all of the above triggers, even though they work fantastically, only work when you’re around other people.
For example, unless you’re recognizably famous, she won’t give you a second look at the supermarket.
What I’m getting at is a very powerful, very effective “trigger” that doesn’t require the acceptance of crowds.
Because it implies them.
See, most people start life out unsure of themselves. Then through the course of their lives, they try different things out, and achieve various levels of success.
Then based on how successful they are, they’ll start getting social recognition.
Because genuine social recognition is one of the most potent drugs known to mankind, once you get it you’ll radiate some kind of “magic.”
But it usually only happens when you’re around other people. I’m sure you know folks like this. When they’re out in public, they’re on fire. But when they’re alone, they seem a bit different.
This is charisma from the outside in. Charisma that is dependent on others.
When you can generate charisma from the inside out, it’s about a billion times more powerful.
That way, when you’re walking down the supermarket aisle, even if you’re just checking out the cereal, she’ll know something’s different about you.
Most people like and accept themselves AFTER they are liked and accepted by others.
But when you can learn to accept and like yourself BEFORE you are liked and accepted by others, it’s much, much more powerful.
This is the inside of “social proof” that most guys don’t even know about.
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You’ll find out that there’s a lot more that they aren’t telling you.