Humans are hard wired for some useful stuff. Sexual desire, anger, competition.
But sometimes this gets in the way.
Consider the typical “automatic” mindset when you see an attractive women.
Attraction, desire, you start to imagine all the crazy things you’d like to do together.
So you screw up your courage, walk on over, and open her.
And get shut down.
That incredible potential has suddenly turned to agonizing defeat. Your fantasies of the future have been slammed shut, and all you’re left with is dejection and frustration.
And anger.
Normally, anger is a pretty helpful emotion. Especially back in the caveman days. Anger gave us energy to keep pushing forward, keep fighting, and not throwing in the towel.
But when we’re out in the club, anger isn’t so helpful.
So, what’s the solution? Holding a frame of curiosity. Now, this isn’t natural, so it’s going to take some practice.
After all, you’ve got a caveman brain living in a modern world, you know that those ancient instincts don’t always serve you.
But with a little conscious practice, you’ll find talking to girls is a lot less stressful.
Which means you’ll be a lot more relaxed, and a lot more successful.
One thing that can significantly help is if you’ve got a “prosperity mindset,” meaning you don’t see each girl as your one and only chance.
Paradoxically, this is the same prosperity mindset that will allow you to switch on your deeply programmed wealth generating capacities, for even more success.
Find out more here:
Prosperity Mindset