If you’ve even found yourself in a relationship that just kept getting worse, either from your perspective or hers, you’re not alone.
Marriages, long term relationships,and short term flings often end up not like we want them to.
You start out like gangbusters, heavily into each other, then something happens. Either you get too comfortable, and your “real” self rears its ugly head, or something about her that you used to like is now starting to bother you more and more.
Pretty soon, you fight like rabid dogs, and can’t stand each other.
You were playing with scared money. A poverty mindset. Desperation.
It’s no secret that 99.99% of guys are undersexed. Meaning we’ll gladly jump on anything with a decent body and some kind eye contact.
But, as I’m sure you can imagine, this can lead to heaps of trouble.
Now, I’m saying you should take your time jumping in the sack, but consider at least talking to her for a few minutes before accepting her completely as the perfect goddess from heaven you hope she is.
Cause she likely ain’t.
The best way to frame your mind is to think of a few deal breakers, red flags that should rightfully send you screaming for the hills.
And use that first conversation, BEFORE you ask for her number, to make sure she doesn’t have any of those.
A surprising (or maybe not so much) side effect from this frame is that because you won’t automatically accept her simply by her looks, approaching her will be a lot easier.
She can’t reject you if you haven’t accepted her yet, right?
This will also make you more attractive, as she’ll pick up on the fact that you are somehow “different” from all the other slobbering beggars out there.
You’ve got standards. You won’t just accept anybody.
Once you’ve talked to her long enough to make sure she fits YOUR criteria, it’s time to turn on the charm.
And you can do those with these incredibly hypnotic and covert language patterns that’ll let you slip those ideas into her mind and get her thinking exactly what you want her to think
Just make sure she’s qualified first!
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