What kinds of thoughts run through your mind when you see an attractive woman?
If you’re like most guys, your brain is a jumble of conflicting desires, fears, anxieties, and choices.
You’d like to go over and talk to her, but you’re nervous.
You’d like to continue checking her out, but you’re worried you’ll get “caught.”
You imagine the two of you together, but then you come up with a million reasons why she might “reject” you.
Clearly, all of these conflicting thoughts and emotions aren’t helpful.
But here’s something that is. Criteria.
Now, guys come hard wired with certain criteria for females. Young, large and firm breasts, smooth skin, etc.
You don’t have to consciously think about these when you look at her. The more of these she’s got, the more your subconscious caveman brain fires up those feelings of attraction.
If you don’t do ANYTHING other than carry around your caveman criteria, you’ll have NO problems deciding who’s hot, and who’s not.
However, living in a modern world with JUST caveman criteria presents certain problems. It’s one thing to live in small tribe of a hundred folks, where both you and she only have a couple choices.
But when both males and females literally have hundreds of choices on a daily basis, there’s plenty of competition.
And since girls are hardwired to NOT feel attracted until they interact with a guy for a bit, this kind of puts us cavemen at a disadvantage.
Meaning guys are walking around, feeling sudden attraction, while girls aren’t. This can make it seem like you’ve got to qualify yourself to her every single time.
This is where criteria comes in. When you sit down (away from any girls) and come up with some specific, NON PHYSICAL criteria, this will give you a lot more power and choice.
Instead of just feeling attraction right away, you’ll instead wonder if she meets you’re criteria.
And she’ll sense that you’re wondering, instead of slobbering over her. Which will make you MUCH more attractive.
Something that will make you even MORE attractive, when you talk to her, is some specific language patterns that will spin her mind in pretty much any direction you’d like.
Giving you an incredible one-two punch that will make her wonder just who in the heck YOU are.