Everybody’s got a goal. Or should have a goal. Otherwise, you’re going to automatically fall back on your genetic programming. Which is to collect wealth and get laid.
Not that that’s a bad thing. It’s kept guys happy for hundreds of thousands of years.
But you don’t want to get laid with just any girl, do you?
You’d rather have some hot girls that feet your specific criteria, right?
Not just some drunken floozy who happens to be horny enough to go home with you, right?
The problem is, that there’s a difference between ms. right and ms. right now.
Ms. right now is usually not going to be ms. right now for long, if you catch my drift.
That’s why you’ve ALWAYS got to be increasing your skill.
In fact, until you’ve got Ms. RIGHT, that special girl that satisfies ALL your criteria, begging for your attention and affection, then EVERYTHING should be seen as practice.
Every girl you talk to, every girl you number close, every girl you have sex with.
Unless she’s Miss Perfect, she’s practice.
Does this mean you should be rude, and kick her to the curb when you’re done? Of course not.
Be in the moment. Enjoy her. However you’re interacting with her, enjoy it. But always keep in the back of your mind that she’s only practice. No pressure, no failure. Only experience learning, and enjoyment.
Keep that in mind next time you’re in the field.