This one is really corny, but can be fun, and more effective than you may think when used with a bit of playfulness.
As with all openers, (and pretty much anything you say to a girl), your inner state has much more effect on your success than most guys realize. This, nor any other opener is going to work well if you’re nervous or unsure about yourself.
That being said, this is can help you to “pretend” to be nervous, as you’ll see in a moment.
Here’s what you do. See that girl over there? The one you’d like to hook up with?
All game aside, what would you like to say to her? Tell her that she’s gorgeous? Tell her that she’s got beautiful eyes? Think of whatever you want to say, and then head on over.
When you get there, say this:
“Excuse me, Hi I’m Max, I’m not hitting on you, you’ve got a kind face and I’d like your opinion on something.”
She’ll say, “OK. Go ahead.” Maybe a little skeptical, but don’t worry.
Then you say:
“There’s this girl here I’d like to approach, and I’ve sort of worked out I want to say, but can I practice it on you first?”
Now she’s interested. She’s wondering who you’re after, and if anything, she’ll want to encourage you just so she can watch.
(If she rolls her eyes are acts like she can’t be bothered, she’s not into you, and wouldn’t be into you during a “normal” approach anyway).
Then you look at her and tell her whatever it is you wanted to tell her in the first place.
If she gives you any feedback? Just keep changing your opener per her suggestions. If you’re really lucky, she’ll help you go over it a few times. Once you’ve got it down, she’ll ask you who the lucky girl is.
Then you say,
“The girl I wanted to approach, was you.”
Then watch her jaw drop.
Like I said, this takes some balls and some playfulness, but it can work out pretty well.
You’ve basically walked up to her, asked her the perfect combination of words to pick her up with, looked her in the eyes, and said them.
Try it out if you’re feeling up to it.
Till next time,